Wei Yuan found Han Ling and told her, "I am pregnant, and this child is Xiao Ran's." ”
After the intense affection between her husband and Xiao San, Xiao San became even more arrogant, forcing her wife Han Ling to abdicate with what she called the "bead tire secret knot".
After Han Ling received Wei Yuan's clear answer, his eyes were full of tears, and his voice trembled to agree to Wei Yuan's request, which was a moment of collapse and a moment of despair.
Han Ling was unable to have children for the rest of her life, which was the most cruel revenge of Destiny against her. It is a pity that that person is Xiao Ran, who once said that the road to entrepreneurship is full of difficulties, and the timing of the birth of a child is not appropriate. Han Ling followed Xiao Ran's choice, which resulted in Han Ling never being able to play the role of a mother.
What is ironic is that Xiao Ran actually acquiesced to another woman and ruined their marriage relationship in this way.
Eileen Chang describes: "Life is like a gorgeous robe, and its interior is full of parasites. ”
Han Ling and Xiao Ran spent ten years of love together, they once had nothing, but in order to provide Xiao Ran with a stable rear environment, Han Ling gave up her status as a mother, and finally got such an ending. His father, after he got married, was suddenly shot dead, leaving behind a child and an old man. In Han Ling's frank words, every sentence was full of resentment.
The most untrue joke is: Everything I do is for you.
Xiao Ran is actually a poor young man. At school, he was despised by his classmates, and his financial situation became a topic of ridicule.
At the school's annual assembly, he fell in love with Han Ling, who not only had an outstanding temperament, but also danced very elegantly. He is a senior in high school with good grades but poor family conditions. At that time, Han Ling was warmly pursued by Liu Yuan, who was from a wealthy family.
Despite this, Han Ling still chose Xiao Ran, who had nothing. Following in Xiao Ran's footsteps, Han Ling got a satisfying drinking water."
Xiao Ran firmly promised that he would ensure that Han Ling lived a prosperous life.
Xiao Ran held this belief, he once set up a street stall, worked in a vegetable market to sell fish, and was also cold-eyed, deceived and rejected by others.
Despite this, he still resolutely challenged life, promising to bring happiness to Han Ling, earn a lot of wealth, and "hide in the golden house" for Han Ling.
Eventually, Xiao Ran achieved great success, became a billionaire, lived in a luxury villa, and bought a car. He did make Han Ling enjoy a prosperous life, but he did not bring true happiness to Han Ling.
Xiao Ran gradually lost himself in the pursuit of desire and wealth. His girlfriend is also a drunk, often in the middle of the night**. He was Xi frequenting high-end clubs and indulging in alcohol every night. He also funded third parties.
When Xiao San confessed to Han Ling as the winner, this ten-year relationship also came to an end.
In fact, if we take a closer look at Xiao Ran's remarks and actions, what he said about "everything for Han Ling" is actually just to cover up his excessive pursuit of money, and he is willing to give up for Han Ling regardless of whether his efforts are successful or not.
Xiao Ran has always wanted to be rich and eager to stand out. Tired of being ridiculed, he went all out to start his own business, just to show his talent and worth.
In order to prove that he was not born poor, nor was he a lowly person who was easily despised, he aspired to be a figure admired by everyone. All he wants is a spirit and a belief, an attitude towards life. All he is looking for is the mentality of being dismissive of everything and being able to make multiple choices in his life.
Han Ling never made it clear that she hoped that Xiao Ran would succeed and eventually become a wealthy woman;What she pursues is only to live a peaceful and beautiful life with her husband by her side in a state of small wealth.
Xiao Ran always ignored Han Ling's actual needs. Success Daefu is described as "wholeheartedly for Han Ling". Even if Han Ling is not there, Xiao Ran will still set up stalls, sell discs, and try to make himself stand out from the crowd.
You see, in the end, Xiao Ran firmly denied that his behavior was actually his most unreal joke.
Han Ling's nostalgia for the past also reveals Xiao Ran's "scum" character
Han Ling happily revealed to Xiao Ran that she had successfully obtained a sponsored dress provided by the school, so she was eligible to participate in the performance. "What do you say this is?Surprisingly, Xiao Ran immediately became narrow-minded, believing that Han Ling's actions had damaged his self-esteem. He insisted on using his own funds to buy a dress for Han Ling.
Han Ling was heartbroken for Xiao Ran's hard-earned money, so she secretly returned the gift, which also caused her hard-earned performance opportunity to miss out on Xiao Ran.
Xiao Ran's inner inferiority complex and distrust have always existed in their decade-long love journey. He is a talented but inferior man. Even though Han Ling's attitude had dropped to dust, he still firmly believed that a life without wealth would be despised by others.
Every decision Xiao Ran makes is out of consideration for his own life and dignity. She knew she couldn't go on like this, so she had to try to change. Xiao Ran never regarded Han Ling as the first object of consideration. From the moment Xiao Ran established a relationship with Han Ling, Han Ling became Xiao Ran's vassal, a vase that only needed to be placed at home.
Only when Han Ling fell into the dust and Xiao Ran decided to give up the child, Han Ling couldn't bear to let go and chose to have an abortion.
There is a subtlety that reveals the extent to which Xiao Ran neglected Han Ling in his daily life.
After Xiao Ran accompanied Han Ling back from the miscarriage, he boiled a few eggs for Han Ling and peeled them. Surprisingly, she was deeply moved, shed tears, and shared words that she could feel happiness even if she had a miscarriage.
In order for Han Ling to be moved by that subtle sweetness, she had to put in a small effort.
Xiao Ran's gentleness and thoughtfulness were only for a short period of time. After feeding Han Ling, he continued to return to work.
When Han Ling really needed Xiao Ran, he never deliberately asked for even half a day's vacation for her.
Since Han Ling's abortion, she has suffered from health problems, often going to the hospital alone and going in and out of the community alone.
When Han Ling was aided by someone she didn't know because of her weak health, the stranger's words "ride her home" almost brought Han Ling to tears. She knows that she can no longer be as warm to others, to care for others, and to help others as before. But she didn't understand why she was doing itShe felt very lonely because she was always alone.
Xiao Ran sarcastically said to Han Ling, "Really?Can just showing that little bit of enthusiasm really bring so much benefit?”
That's right, Xiao Ran is reluctant to give so much kindness.
Out of consideration for Xiao Ran, Han Ling followed all his plans, chose to resign, miscarry, and retreat into the background, and finally got a husband who didn't consider his wife's needs at all.
Further, he felt that she was disgraced and had lost his macho image;One step further, she sees herself as a shadow of a man. Take a step back and see her as air and her as a caged bird.
Xiao Ran defended Han Ling as a "scumbag", his selfishness was deeply rooted in his bone marrow, and he even wanted to pull Han Ling as his backing.
Han Ling's misreading of the philosophy of life.
In her life, Han Ling only left the word "Xiao Ran".
She once thought that as long as Xiao Ran gave wholeheartedly, she would be able to impress him, and believed that Xiao Ran would one day be warmed by her and rediscover her past self.
Yishu once expressed this opinion: "When two people live together, it would be ideal if both parties showed diligence and effort;Conversely, if both parties show laziness, then it is okay to be together;The most worrying thing is that if one person is self-motivated and the other is lacking, or if one person is too egotistical, then there will be nothing worth living. "The complementarity of personalities is really like a joke!
In the ten years that Xiao Ran and Han Ling spent together, Han Ling suffered physical injuries, lost his dignity, and gave up his future, all he got was Xiao Ran's indifference and expectations for the future.
Xiao Ran would rather flirt and linger with other women in a high-end club than spend more time bringing warmth to Han Ling's heart.
When Xiao Ran decided to give up Han Ling for the sake of the "child" mentioned in Wei Yuan's mouth, he was just indifferently trying to solve this problem with money.
When the two discussed the issue of divorce, Han Ling asked, "Are you going to give me money?"How much money do you think is appropriate for me?”
Xiao Ran immediately said without hesitation: "How much do you need?."”
Han Ling expressed this opinion: "Now that people are gone, what do I need money to do?"I will never accept your money because I am disgusted by it. ”
At that particular moment, Han Ling's pain reached its peak. She suddenly realized that years of hard work had turned out to be food for the dog.
It wasn't until this moment that Han Ling really woke up from this emotion.
In the past, it was just blindly pandering to others, and in the end, it was only exchanged for deep humiliation. I think we should look to those who have been moved to tears – our children. The only one who really touched people's hearts was myself. This time it's Wei Yuan, and next time, how many "Wei Yuan" are scrambling to have children for Xiao Ran?
In the past decade, Han Ling seems to have become the laughing stock of everyone.
Epilogue section. The decade-long deep relationship between Xiao Ran and Han Ling can be described as "going far from each other".
Xiao Ran only pursues money, while Han Ling only pursues love. As time went on, the relationship between the two became more and more estranged.
It should be Liu Yuan to become Han Ling's ideal partner. She loved him, but she didn't understand him. The man was deeply in love with him for the rest of his life. He is well aware of her loneliness, and often gives her a trace of warmth in inadvertent moments.
In the journey of life, it is not terrible to go in the wrong direction, the key is to avoid excessive paranoia. Han Ling showed a paranoid attitude in the life pattern set by Xiao Ran, living just for him. Eventually, when another woman appeared, Xiao Ran was taken away.
Xiao Ran decided to remarry Han Ling after learning the news that Wei Yuan was pretending to be pregnant. What if you're really pregnant?How should she deal with this accident?I guess Xiao Ran may accompany Wei Yuan to live a happy family of three.
Han Ling became Xiao Ran's retreat. He always manages to control her effortlessly, turning her peaceful life into chaos.
In the end, Xiao Ran died in a car accident, which may be a release for Han Ling. She didn't choose to leave like other girls, but kept holding on to her beliefs. Since then, Han Ling has been by her honest teacher husband's side, living a plain and emotional life.