With the rapid development of society, the number of students enrolled in universities is increasing. In the past, peers who are still studying at university may have already entered into married life, but as education levels have improved, more and more young people are focusing on their studies and less on their love lives, which makes parents anxious.
Parents of girls worry that their daughters are too focused on their studies and may find it difficult to find a suitable marriage partner in the futureParents of boys are worried that there are more and more boys now, and it may be difficult to find a suitable daughter-in-law in the future. Both sides face similar concerns and often come up with unrealistic ideas.
Considering how difficult it is for college students to develop relationships on campus, why not arrange a blind date for them?Many parents find a suitable blind date for their children through the introduction of friends. What kind of fate will this new generation of young people usher in?
She ran away from him, and she couldn't fly with her wings" - this is a recent high-profile post-00s blind date record, which makes people laugh. A boy who says "We're not unsuitable, it's that you're too demanding" after being rejected by a girl shows even more extreme self-confidence afterwards, perhaps because he was hit or thinks very highly of himself. It's challenging to communicate with such oddities.
If the two parties cannot reach a consensus, it is advisable to break up peacefully. Smart people know how to refuse tactfully, without forcibly saving face, and avoiding childlike immature words. Although college students are young, they are not ignorant, especially in today's developed Internet, they are well-informed.
Sometimes, in addition to the overconfident and repulsive, there are some stalkers who are just as a headache. Especially those who have to chase girls to see without makeup, unless the relationship is very close, how can girls allow the opposite sex to see themselves without makeup?Especially for those girls who like to wear makeup, they are more concerned about this.
In college, it is the stage when girls are keen to dress up. If some boys don't understand this, they keep emphasizing that girls need to wear no makeup, which is really a bit out of place. It is recommended that these boys reflect on themselves first, take a good look in the mirror, and to be honest, this behavior makes people feel speechless.
Some of the students, despite their young age, have been arranged by their parents. Before I went home, I received a notice that I was going to get married during the holidays, which was really a headache. If you're unfortunate enough to face this situation, you might not want to go home at all to avoid getting into a daunting situation.
Looking at the chat logs shared by college students, it's really a bit like a ** plot, "She runs away from him, she can't fly with wings" - this is simply some kind of Mary Sue plot. The recent blind date experience of the post-00s generation has caused heated discussions, full of jokes, and it is really a headache to hope that college students will no longer fall into such an embarrassing situation.
Is it good to be my cute kitten", a college student meets a "greasy man" on a blind date and spits out the overnight meal. It's already this era, and there are still people who call each other kittens when they are pursuing?This kind of words and deeds make people think about it, as if you can feel the greasy, religious atmosphere. It is obviously not appropriate to show such behavior soon after the first acquaintance.
Today's college students are more sober and understand that they should evacuate in time if the two are not suitable. It is a pity that there are still some people who insist on living in their own fantasies, do not want to listen to the opposition of others, seem to turn a deaf ear to the opinions of others, and perhaps have a low level of education.
After all, after spending a few years on campus, college students should have accumulated experience in getting along with their peers and should have a similar understanding of some things. Today's college students express themselves very clearly, and it is clear what they like and what they don't like. If you still can't feel it, it may not be suitable for socializing with contemporary college students.
The matching of the three views is crucial, and if you find that they are not suitable for each other, it is best to release the signal as soon as possible to avoid wasting too much time. Therefore, it is recommended that students should rather have a shortage than an overabundance, and do not easily give the impression of being in a hurry.
Parents' attitudes are also crucial. When children want to fall in love in middle and high school, parents generally disagree;And now that they are eager to concentrate on their studies, parents should also understand. It is hoped that parents can change their minds and give more support to their children when they enter the workplace, which is the wisest choice.
It is also a smart practice for graduates to choose to start a career first and then start a family. In this way, you can reach a higher level of people, and you can have more choices after achieving a certain level. Therefore, all university students are urged not to be too playful, and whether they are boys or girls, they should not easily give up their future for each other. Always keep loving yourself, only know how to love yourself, in order to win the respect of others.
Today's topic: If you were a college student, would you like someone who is confident?