Recently, a special "help-seeker" came to a Chengdong police station in Shandong Province - a 90-year-old mother-in-law. She said worriedly that her daughter-in-law had pulled out all the bean seedlings she had worked so hard to plant today, and hoped that the police would educate her daughter-in-law.
It turned out that the old man lived alone, and his daily pleasure was to plant some vegetables and fruits in his small open space. However, the daughter-in-law was worried that the old man's old age would be dangerous to work, so she repeatedly dissuaded the old man from farming, which was strongly opposed by the old man. Today, the daughter-in-law was in a hurry, so she pulled out all the bean seedlings planted by the old man.
After the police learned of the situation, they contacted the old man's son as soon as possible. It turned out that the daughter-in-law had also persuaded the old man not to farm many times before, for fear that she would have three longs and two shorts. What we are doing today is pure confusion.
Under the patient negotiation of the police, the old man also understood the distress of his daughter-in-law and son. The daughter-in-law apologized to the old man, and the two reconciled as before. It was getting late, and the police sent the old man home safely and informed his daughter-in-law in case similar disputes happened again.
The matter ended in a satisfactory settlement. The police listened carefully, resolved the grievances in the hearts of the elderly, and also made the children understand the intentions of the elderly. A dispute in a small corner can lead to the destruction of family harmony. Therefore, instead of maintaining their own face and position, it is better to think more from the perspective of the other party. This is also the key to resolving family conflicts.
Some netizens commented: "It's not easy for the elderly, and the children are also a piece of mind." That's human nature. Indeed, how can a family of three be free from contradictions. However, as long as there is good understanding and the conflict is turned into a jade silk, any family problems can be easily solved.