Endure it, be outstanding, can't stand it, get out, this is life. It is common to advance and retreat in life, and the key is in the word "boiling". When the heat arrives, the taste will naturally be there.
Some people say that life is like porridge, some people say that life is like medicine, and some people say that life is like tea. But no matter what kind of taste it is, this taste must be boiled out in the long years.
The word "boil" is very expressive. A lot of life marathons depend on boiling. Sunrise and sunset, life and work are mostly repetitive, and only by staying up can we get ahead.
Don't give up easily about your own things, don't leave your position casually, just work hard there step by step, and endure it, so that there will be bright flowers.
Boiling, on the surface, is a test, but in fact it is a sublimation. As Lin Yutang said: "Holding a teapot, you can boil life to the essence of the essence." ”
On the road of life, everyone will not be flat, in the process of boiling all kinds of tastes, until the day of the peak and the turn, those who are willing to go through this practice, will gain a perseverance beyond ordinary people.
Boiling is an invisible persistenceI often hear the admonition of the older generation: "How can you get the fragrance of plum blossoms without a cold bone." ”
Yes, we often envy the glamour of others and envy others for living so well, but we don't see the efforts behind others, and we can't see how others have survived the hard years of life.
After staying up for a long time, their hearts have been tempered and tenacious, and even in the midst of thousands of twists and turns, they can become people who can be defeated, but will never be defeated. 
To you who are struggling:You're working hard for your future, and sometimes it feels like there's no end in sight. But you have to believe that after you can move yourself through this period of hard work, everything you want will be returned to you. There are no shortcuts to anywhere worth visiting. 
In fact, it is not difficult for a person to overcome temporary difficulties, the difficult thing is how to persevere in doing it, if you can do it persistently, then you are already extraordinary, and it is a matter of time before you succeed. 
The sword should be sharpened on a stone, and a man should be trained in his work.
The obstacles you encounter, the calamities you suffer, and the difficulties you encounter do not exist to defeat you, but to increase your wisdom, hone your mind, and improve your abilities.
The ancient Roman poet Ovid said, "Patience and perseverance are painful things, but they will gradually bring you good." "The growth of people needs to go through a difficult period of time to have a deeper growth imprint, and only after surviving can they know how to be grateful and cherish life. 
Boiling is a process of continuous accumulation
The growth of a person is to constantly hone and experience, in order to present a wonderful scene in the account book of life. And different attitudes towards this kind of training will have different results: some people persevere to the end and see the light of day;Some people stop halfway through the story and leave the story halfway. As the old saying goes: "Therefore, the heavens will descend on people, and they must first suffer their minds, strain their muscles and bones, starve their bodies and skins, empty their bodies, and act chaotically, so they will be tempted to endure and gain what they cannot." ”
The suffering we suffer is because there are more important things we need to do in our later life, so we must first continue to accumulate and improve our ability to better cope with the problems we encounter in the future. Only by doing everything well in a down-to-earth manner and paying attention to the usual accumulation can you improve your mood and survive those difficult years. Believe that all the tribulations now are paving the way for your future smooth sailing. When you look back on life in the future, you will be glad that you have carried it and survived. 
A good life must be "boiled".
Feng Lun said: "Greatness comes out, and 'boiling' is to see if you can persevere." ”
Around us, many people like to set some plans for themselves, such as reading a few books a month, insisting on exercising, learning what musical instruments, etc., but there is no follow-up. Because after trying it, they found that it was very difficult to stick to their own planning process, and they chose to give up if they couldn't survive, and after a few years, when they saw that others succeeded, they would regret why they didn't stick to the end. 
In life, work and study, we often encounter some troubles or problems, we will feel very tired, very irritable, see no hope, and will be very pessimistic thinking: "Why do I have to go through these tribulations?"Why do others do so well?Why ......This will only magnify the problems and difficulties, as if you are vulnerable to these problems, and life seems hopeless.
But in fact, as long as you persist and endure a little longer, make the problem smaller, magnify yourself, and get through that difficulty, there will still be a way ahead. It's like Jiang Taigong survived and waited for King Wen of Zhou to come;Goujian, the king of Yue, survived and became a generation of overlords;Sima Qian endured and finally completed his masterpiece "Historical Records". Everyone has the most difficult times, some people don't have enough to eat, some people can't get medical treatment, some people are homeless, and some people spend their lives for more people. Bitterness is silent, joy is silent. Few people really understand your suffering when facing it, and only by slowly surviving it yourself can you turn it into growth. Life is a multi-flavored journey, with ups and downs, spicy and salty, and the mentality is completely controlled by us.
Maybe we will be troubled and sorrowful because of a temporary unpleasant situation, as long as we adjust our mentality, face it positively, and get through it is great. In the face of difficulties and challenges, it is enough to actively respond to the battle, do what you can do well, face the gains and losses calmly, and pay attention to the inner harvest and growth. The road is long, and its repair is long. In the process of "boiling", everyone will taste all the flavors of life, just like the bitterness and sweetness of tea.