I've always advised friends who drink to be drinkersDrinking here does not mean that you have to drink a good amount of alcohol, on the contrary, it does not require a high amount of alcohol. It's not so much about drinking, it's about being at the wine table. Drinking no matter who you drink with, taking care of each other is the most basic. How to become a drinker?What should be the performance of words and deeds?
First of all, learn to respect the rules at the wine table. In China, there are many rules at the wine table, such as not pouring a full glass, not persuading alcohol, not interrupting others at will, and so on. These rules are all about creating a harmonious, pleasant atmosphere where drinking becomes a pleasure rather than a burden. Therefore, a person who can drink alcohol must first abide by these rules and not spoil the harmonious atmosphere at the wine table. It can be said that many people who drink alcohol pay more attention to toasting and acting. Especially when talking about cooperation, the primary and secondary seats are more valued by many partners, which expresses the importance of the other party. Some people say it's troublesome, but when it comes to cooperation and communication, these are the details.
Second, learn to take care of others. At the wine table, especially when drinking with strangers, it is very important to take care of the feelings of others. Pay attention to whether the other person drinks too much or too little, whether they like to drink, whether there are any dietary restrictions, etc. If the other person has any discomfort or dissatisfaction, ask and make adjustments in time to make the other person feel that you care and respect.
Also, pay attention to your words and deeds. When drinking, many people become impulsive or open-mouthed because of the effects of alcohol. However, a person who can drink alcohol will always keep a clear head and appropriate words and deeds. They don't lose their temper, ** or behave inappropriately at the wine table, but always maintain a good image and demeanor. Good communication skills are an important aspect of conversation performance. At the wine table, people's interactions and exchanges tend to be more frequent and deeper. At this time, you should be good at listening to the opinions and suggestions of others, respect the thoughts and feelings of others, and avoid verbal conflicts and behavioral gaffes due to drinking. At the same time, you should also learn to express your opinions and emotions appropriately, and use alcohol to get closer to others and strengthen your feelings for each other.
Finally, know how to do it in moderation. To be a person who can drink, you must have the ability to control yourself. The amount of alcohol is not a measure of whether a person will drink, the key is whether they can control their desire to drink, maintain a clear mind and a stable mood. Although drinking alcohol is a pleasure, excessive drinking is harmful to the body and health. When drinking, always remind yourself not to overdo it, always pay attention to your body's reactions, and stop drinking as soon as you feel unwell. At the same time, you should also learn to refuse the persuasion of others, and do not drink excessively for the sake of face or other reasons.
Being a person who can drink alcohol is a test of a person's comprehensive ability. In modern society, alcohol has become an indispensable drink in people's social occasions, so how to drink, how to control the amount of alcohol you drink, and how to interact with others are particularly important.