An Jie and Jiang Defu had a falling out once when they fell in love, because Jiang Defu admitted that he had been married.
What An Jie couldn't accept, what she longed for was pure and flawless love, so the two broke up.
Later, An Jie's nephew An Chen had encephalitis, and Jiang Defu helped An Jia find medicine regardless of his previous suspicions, and the two got in touch again.
After the child recovered from his illness, An Jie's family invited Jiang Defu to their home for dinner.
At the dinner table, they wanted to get him drunk, half-drunk and half-awakeAn Xin specifically asked him if he had children in his last marriage, and he categorically denied it.
The two have been married for more than 20 years, and when the children are older, a Jiang Changyi suddenly appeared to recognize his father.
An Jie was so angry that she went back to her parents' house directly, but in the end she didn't wait for Jiang Defu's explanation.
In the years that followed, he remained tight-lipped about this matter.
It wasn't until An Jie's 50th birthday that Jiang Changyi took the initiative to go to the island to tell the truth in order to fall in love with An Ran.
It's a bad feeling to be deceived.
As Cyrus once said, being deceived is more unbearable than being rejected.
What's even more terrifying is that after marrying him for more than 20 years, they haven't treated her as their own, which is even more unbearable.
But when she was in her 60s, seeing Ge Meixia helping her stepson take care of the child very hard, An Jie sighed: Your stepmother should be very responsible!
Ge Meixia replied: Don't be an old stepmother, what's wrong with your stepmother?Aren't you also a stepmother?
An Jie smiled: Yes.
Obviously she was so angry at the beginning, why do you have to admit that she is a stepmother now?
First, An Jie understands the general situation and takes the overall situation into account.
Zhou Guoping wrote in "The Distance of Watching": A wise woman must have everyone's demeanor.
An Jie is such a wise woman.
A person's character and personality can be seen from her daily behavior.
I.II. Due to family composition problems, Angel is not welcome after work, and of course the leader will not give her a good errand.
Although An Jie has complaints in her heart, she will always force herself to complete it, such as: in order to make up the number, she limps to participate in the sorority ball;
In order to complete the task of the leader, he forced himself to take the initiative to invite Jiang Defu to make a report on heroic deeds.
After marrying Jiang Defu,Although he didn't like the jokes made by his comrades-in-arms, he still prepared the meals very seriously, and gave his husband enough face in front of others.
Although she will have some petty temperament and don't pay attention to what she talks at home, she still puts her family first in public and important occasions.
After she gave birth to the National Day, Jiang Defu asked his sister Dehua to help without her consent, although An Jie was unhappy but compromised.
When they were in the artillery school, the sister-in-law and sister-in-law had many conflicts due to living habits, preconceived ideas and other reasons, although An Jie ran back to her parents' house angrily, but in the end they took the initiative to go back.
For the sake of this family, she has learned a lot of things that she would not have done before, and she has changed a lot.
Looking at the outfits of her and An Xin in their later years, it can be seen that she has truly integrated into the Jiang family and become a member of the Jiang family, from a delicate lady to a rural lady.
She knows that she can only live happily if she truly integrates.
And Jiang Defu's face is also her face, she has already been wronged, so why bother to clarify it?
Second, An Jie can carry it clearly.
The biggest stain on An Jie's marriage with Jiang Defu is that he chilled his wife's heart for a fake son. In those years, she was really distressed, and she couldn't let go, but she still lived her life.
Because she knew that it was before his marriage, and although there was deception, it was a trivial matter.
But when I encounter something similar, I still can't help but think of this stubble, and my heart is panicked.
For example, Lao Ding was concealed by Wu Yizhu for his second marriage, and An Jie thought that Jiang Defu was also a second marriage, and he also concealed such a big son;
Yaning was not very interested in coming back after the college entrance examination, and Jiang Defu was worried that she was not admitted and sighed: Why can't there be a college student in my child?
An Jie replied to him: Why can't you get out, didn't Jiang Changyi be admitted to university?
Although she often used this matter to respond to Jiang Defu, he always walked away and ignored her.
He hasn't told the truth all these years, for the sake of the family's face, he would rather let his wife have a pimple in his heart, An Jie is really chilling.
After the truth was revealed, Jiang Defu apologized to her at An Jie's insistence: I did it wrong, I didn't think about it from your point of view, I shouldn't have beaten that child, and I'm even more sorry for the dead second brother ......
From these words, what I feel is that Jiang Defu regrets his own face the most, and he doesn't apologize too much to his wife.
But An Jie chose to let go.
Compared with the years that the two have been together, he gave up the promotion in his position for her, protected her from criticism, and changed the fate ......of her mother's child
In the face of these, these grievances suffered by oneself have become insignificant.
Just like Zhou Guoping said: It is open-minded to see through small things.
An Jie is that open-minded person, so she will not tell her husband's secret for her own grievances.
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