When online love encounters cruel reality, the ending of online love is often unsatisfactory. In the online world, the popularity of beautification features has made people adept at retouching, making avatars far from reality. Although online dating has become commonplace, most of the rush stories end in a bad ending. The reason is that the virtual lover may be more perfect than the real one, but once compared to the real person, the difference is obvious.
There is a woman who develops a good relationship with a man while playing a game, and the two develop a love affair. As a result of being together in the game for a long time, they decided to meet in reality. The woman is more proactive with the man, she tells the man that she is 28 years old, and that she is of the age of marriage, and if she feels suitable after meeting, she can consider talking about marriage.
The woman came all the way to the man's city, and she waited alone on the side of the road for her boyfriend to appear, holding flowers in her hand. Soon the man appeared, and the woman was ecstatic and ready to throw herself into her boyfriend's arms, but the man stopped her from doing so. The woman thought that her boyfriend was just shy, after all, it was on the street, so she also felt a little shy. The boyfriend said, "You take off your mask first, let me see if it's you." As he spoke, the boyfriend took off his girlfriend's mask. When the boyfriend saw his girlfriend's swarthy **, the expression on his face changed.
The boyfriend said to his girlfriend, "You better go back the way you came, we are not suitable." Of course, the woman was unwilling and asked her boyfriend that she was not good. The boyfriend responded directly: "You are ** dark, short in stature, and you don't look good on **." I think you used beauty in the first place and deliberately lied to me. The woman argued: "I really didn't use my beauty, I just wore light makeup." This time I went out without makeup, so it was a little different from before. Isn't it bad to wear no makeup? Which one did you like in the beginning? The boyfriend said frankly: "I like you in the game more, you in reality are far from you in the game, I don't like it." ”
In the face of online dating, the woman was broken up by her boyfriend because of her short height and appearance difference, she complained: "You treat love as a game, can you be realistic?" I'm already facing you without makeup, and we're in a relationship. I have come thousands of miles to see you, you are too indifferent to me like this, you turn around and leave, it is too irresponsible. ”
However, the man ignored his girlfriend's feelings and left the scene directly. The woman stood still, overwhelmed. Soon after, she couldn't help but cry, and finally realized that she had paid the wrong price.
In this regard, the majority of netizens said that this woman was too naïve, and thought that Ben Xian would have a good result. In fact, many men and women in online dating break up after they appear, because the reality is far from the ideal love, which is the cognitive difference. Love should still be found in real life.
In my opinion, although men do not like their girlfriends, they should also do their best to be landlords, after all, they used to be friends. Properly arranging this online relationship will not cause harm to anyone, but can reflect a mature mentality. However, the man chose to ignore his girlfriend's feelings and left the scene directly. From this point of view, men are even more unreliable.
The woman met her online boyfriend after she appeared, but she was taught a lesson by the other party. The boyfriend thought that his girlfriend was not good-looking, **black, and not tall, so he broke up on the spot. This kind of experience is actually in line with the basic process of online dating. If you want to say that the only kindness of the man is that he did not do anything excessive to his online girlfriend and did not bring her into the hotel.
Online dating is actually like a game, and it is unreliable to pursue love in a game. Although the Internet gives people real feelings, it is only an illusion and cannot be taken seriously. After all, the online world is only virtual, real life is real.
Hopefully, this story can serve as a reminder to those who are still lost in virtual love that love is not a game and cannot expect to find the perfect partner through the internet. Getting to know each other and getting along with each other can only be truly appreciated in real life. Why not transform online dating into real encounters in reality?