In real life, we often find such a phenomenon, that is, what you think, you will often encounter, just like the American engineer Murphy's law discovered - the more afraid of making mistakes, the easier it is to make mistakes.
Let's take some examples, you buy a car, and after a while, you find that more and more people are buying the same model;If you like someone, you will find that you often run into her.
And this is actually the principle of "born from the heart" - what you think in your heart, you will often meet.
Why is this happening?
In fact, the logic behind "born from the heart" contains at least the following three aspects, namely:
1. Inner activities will affect people's appearance
As the old saying goes: each other is born from the heart.
In the view of the ancients, a person's inner activities actually affect his appearance, or in other words, a person's appearance, to a certain extent, presents the inner activity of the person.
How so?For example, people with good hearts often have a "blessed face", which can not only be seen by people, but also can be experienced. On the contrary, a person who is full of evil thoughts in his heart, or who has an improper heart, will most of them have a fierce and evil appearance, which makes people avoid him.
It can be seen that a person's inner activities, after years of subtle change, are often presented on people's faces, which is one of the logics behind "born from the heart".
Second, inner activities will profoundly affect people's temperament
Some people say that people's temperament will be deeply affected by the external environment and will be constantly cultivated.
Although there is nothing wrong with this statement, human temperament is not only affected by the environment, but also by inner activities.
For example, a person who is full of calculations in his heart often embody a temperament that makes people feel a kind of aura, such as falsehood, flattery, and exploiting loopholes;On the contrary, those who are virtuous will mostly show a steady and solemn temperament.
It can be seen that people's inner activities will profoundly affect people's temperament.
This is the second logic behind "born from the heart".
3. Inner activity determines what you will focus on – what you pay attention to will often be what you will meet
There is a saying that people only pay attention to what they want to focus on.
I think so.
Let's continue to give an example, if you are a veteran driver, then you will find that most of your acquaintances are veteran drivers.
Why?Because people who really like to drive often only have cars and some people who also like to drive in their hearts, so that they will only pay attention to people and things in this aspect, and other things, even if they happen around them, they will not pay attention to them, or even ignore them.
This is actually the logic behind "what you care about is often what you will meet".
Therefore, to sum up, these contents are actually the principle that the ancients said that "each other is born from the heart" - what you think in your heart, you will often meet something.