Maybe you've heard the name Abby, she's an internet celebrity who has gone through the transition from boy to girl.
Once, she had millions of fans and was known as the embodiment of the "goddess".
However, do you know what a terrible price she paid to achieve her dreams?
He endured physical and mental torment every day, and even had the idea of ending his life. It's a heartbreaking story, and it's a cautionary tale for us.
Ever since she was a child, Abby has struggled with gender identity, believing that he is a girl inside him, but he has to fit into the body of a boy.
He felt disgusted and uncomfortable with his own physiology, and suffered from discrimination and ridicule from those around him. He longs to be able to truly be a girl and have the life that a girl deserves.
In order to pursue her dream, Abby decided to embark on a journey to become an influencer.
He used wigs, makeup, and fashion to change his image and make himself look more feminine.
He posted personal ** and ** on the network, which attracted a lot of attention and affection. He believes that this will bring him closer to realizing his ideals.
However, Abby wasn't content to just change her appearance. He aspires to completely transform his body and become a real woman. Therefore, he decided to undergo conversion surgery, commonly known as "gender reassignment surgery".
This medical practice surgically alters a person's facial features and other gender characteristics. Abby believes this will get him out of his predicament and find happiness.
In 2022, Abby underwent gender transition surgery, completing the transition from male to female.
The process was not easy, and she needed to undergo a long-term psychological evaluation, hormones**, laser hair removal and many other preparations.
The surgery itself is also very complex and risky, requiring the removal of **and**, and the use of **tissue remodeling** and ** and other organs.
Abby thought that she would be able to start a new life after the surgery, but she did not expect that the surgery would bring more problems and pain.
First of all, hormonal medications are needed for a long time after surgery to maintain feminizing characteristics, and regular dilation of the lunar canal is performed to prevent atrophy and closure of the lunar canal.
These are quite painful and troublesome things that require a lot of time and money.
Secondly, a series of complications and sequelae may arise after surgery, such as infection, bleeding, scarring, nerve damage, urethral stricture, etc.
These not only affect Abby's quality of life and sexual functioning, but may even endanger her life. Abby unfortunately suffered one of the most serious sequelae - bleeding from the Yueyue canal.
Abby developed symptoms of bleeding from the Yueyue Canal shortly after the operation, and he initially thought it was a normal ** process that would improve as long as he continued to dilate the Yueyue Dao.
However, he did not expect that this bleeding showed no signs of stopping, but became more and more severe. There was a lot of bleeding every day, and it even stained the toilet bowl red.
Abby's heart was filled with fear, and he was afraid to go to the hospital for a check-up and didn't dare to reveal it to anyone.
He was worried that something was wrong with his body and that he might be at risk of failing the surgery.
He could only bear the pain in silence and secretly suppressed his tears. He considers himself like an outlier, neither male nor female.
Abby had been suffering from bleeding from the Yue Dao for more than half a year, which had left him physically and mentally exhausted.
He felt that he could no longer hold on, and even had the idea of ending his life.
On Weibo, he spoke out helplessly, admitting that he regretted the operation and said that he was in great pain.
Abby's story shows the story of a man who makes extreme choices in pursuit of inner truth.
This choice may or may lead to regret, but in any case, it is his personal decision and he has the right to make it.
We should not deny his choices, nor should we impose our values and judgments on him. His choice should be respected, but also everyone's choice.
Undergoing gender transition surgery is a medical practice that can help improve the quality of life and mental health of some people with identity disorders.
However, it is not a panacea for all problems, and there are many risks and consequences that should be carefully considered and decided.
Not everyone is suitable or in need of gender transition surgery, and not everyone can afford or accept it.
We should have an understanding of the nature and significance of gender transition surgery, as well as its process and possible effects.
I firmly believe that everyone should have the right to choose their own path and pursue happiness.
However, before making these choices, we need to be fully informed and knowledgeable, establish clear goals and motivations, reasonably anticipate and prepare for work, conduct adequate communication and consultation, and receive appropriate support and safeguards.
We cannot blindly follow trends or impulses, nor can we ignore or evade the responsibilities and consequences of these choices.
I hope Abby will get out of the predicament as soon as possible and realize the life she longs for. At the same time, may everyone find true happiness and live the life they want.