When you're lucky, eating rocks is bread-flavored;When you are unlucky, you will stuff your teeth when you drink saliva.
Everyone will encounter things that don't go their way, and it's normal to encounter ups and downs, especially for friends after the age of 30, they must throw away these three old things.
Don't take it seriously, you can really change your life and go uphill at a critical moment.
What are the three "old things"?Let's take a look.
The word "legalism" can be understood in a variety of ways.
You can think of it as doing one thing the same, how many days and how many years it is consistent, the thunder can't move, the wind can't blow and the rain can't be extinguished.
However, for the current career and work requirements, bosses prefer employees who have both work ability, can complete work tasks on time or even exceed the quota, and have their own divergent thinking.
This kind of person with his own ideas is often more able to bring novel ideas and methods to the company, creating more impossibilities.
If you are a veteran employee in the workplace, you have been working time for many years, you have never made a mistake, and you are even reluctant to take a leave of absence for something, but you only have something to do at work.
Such employee leaders can't find faults, nor can they say that they don't like it, but they will not be reused at the first time when they encounter new problems from a new angle of the company's development.
It is often those who are usually more outstanding, and who will show their advantages in front of the boss and leaders, and will have the opportunity to win at this time.
Although your eyes are full of jealousy at this time, and you feel that your performance is not bad at all, why can't you take your turn?Conformism is no longer popular in modern society, and people who are too honest will not only not be taken seriously, but will also be subjected to "workplace plots".
Everyone has timidity and low self-esteem, and man is originally an advanced animal with extremely rich thoughts and emotions, and it is understandable to have these two personalities.
But sometimes, we still have to learn to break through this barrier before we can see the mountains and white clouds after the haze.
There is a famous saying that people who fail are not necessarily cowardly, and cowardly people often fail.Just like in all kinds of workplaces, everyone else is from a big city with a rich family background, and only you are a rural person who works hard to find a job that suits you after being admitted to university.
Colleagues will always talk about their family background in the chat, and they will communicate with each other in fluent "big city dialect", but you dare not speak.
Coming from a small rural village with low self-esteem makes you feel ashamed to speak your native dialect. Even in order to learn Xi standard Mandarin, he temporarily forgot his hometown dialect. It is even believed that only standard Mandarin can make you popular in the workplace in big cities.
But when you are bold and confident to try your hometown, you can show yourself bravely and authentically in front of everyone. You'll find that the performance is more realistic and powerful.
Because it's yourself, it's the power that flows through your body. You are no longer afraid of being ridiculed or criticized by others because you believe that this power is worthy of respect and appreciation.
In this world, there are rich people and poor people, and the starting line of life is different, and there is no fairness at all, some people's birth point is higher than your end point, compared with those people, isn't that more popular than people?
Others wear gold and silver, luxury cars and beautiful women hug each other, and there are too many flattering people around them to count, this kind of life is enough to satisfy the vanity of some people, but for an ordinary person, is this really the life he wants?
What is the saying?Some people are born rich and noble, and some people are dedicated to working hard for others.
In fact, there is no truth in this sentence, people are born with their own families, which is something that we as a child cannot decide and should not complain about.
Do the children who grow up with a golden spoon in their mouths necessarily have a happier life?Parents are busy every day, only accompanied by nannies all day long, not even a word of people to speak, and people who are close to them don't really want to make friends with themselves, but come with a purpose.
On the contrary, those who come from ordinary backgrounds, although their families are not very wealthy, their parents do their best to take care of our three full meals, cotton clothes to keep out the cold, and there will always be so many close friends.
So there is nothing to be jealous and envious at all, everyone yearns for a better life, that's right, but getting rich overnight is just the plot in the movie, and we can only live a better life through our own efforts.
In this city, people seem to have become Xi to the fast-paced life, whether day or night, the streets are always full of people and cars.
Lights and voices are everywhere, and people feel as if they are in the middle of a huge and lively stage. However, this bustling scene can also be easily disoriented.
On the stage of life, we often encounter various difficulties and challenges, like a high wall, blocking our way forward.
In the face of adversity, many people will unconsciously fall into negativity, believing that the road ahead is broken and there is no way out. But what the world really needs is not those who waver in difficult situations and are as timid as mice, but those who are determined, fearless of difficulties, and courageous.
Fate has never set up insurmountable obstacles, and those seemingly insurmountable hurdles are actually just to screen out those who really have the quality of success. Because success is not accidental, but requires ability and strong will as support.
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