Recently, a takeaway brother who earns money for his younger brother to go to school has become popular. The younger brother said that his younger brother was admitted to Fudan University with a score of more than 700 points, which was not easy. The younger brother is very hardworking and sensible. Every month, I have to give my younger brother two or three thousand living expenses.
He also has a younger sister who is in high school and has good grades, in the top 10 in the school.
The little brother not only earns money every month for his younger siblings to go to school, but also for the family to give six or seven thousand, and he only keeps a little money for food.
Sometimes he came home and fell asleep with his head down, but he didn't dare to sleep too hard, so he opened the window so that he could get up quickly the next morning when the cold wind blew. Because he still has to work, the whole family is counting on him. Listening to it can't help but make people feel distressed.
Asked if he had ever thought of a return, he said that the family doesn't care so much. He just wants his younger siblings to live well, use knowledge to change their fate, and live the life they want. Instead of being like myself, I have no culture, no technology, I can only run around and be forced to make a living.
When asked about how well his younger siblings have lived in the future, and your own life is not satisfactory, they will not dislike you?The little brother said confidently that his younger brothers and sisters were very sensible and would not dislike him.
Many netizens are not calm anymore and remind the little brother not to overestimate human nature too much, human nature cannot stand the test. When they all have their own families in the future, there will be all kinds of suspicions. Therefore, you have to leave a way out for yourself, and you can't blindly give and get nothing in the end.
The little brother said that his younger brothers and sisters are very sensible and will not dislike him, even if he has himself, he is not afraid. He gave blindly without reservation, and after his younger siblings finished their studies, he flew away, and finally stayed at home, and the heavy responsibility of taking care of his parents had to fall on his shoulders. He vividly interpreted the sense of responsibility of "eldest brother is like father". He is a typical giving personality.
"Giving personality" has a strong sense of responsibility, always willing to pay for others, without asking for anything in return, and gets inner satisfaction and happiness from the process of helping others.
However, people with a giving personality tend to ignore their own needs and feelings because they are overly focused on others.
Coco Li is a paying personality, she has performed well in all aspects since she was a child, and when she grew up, she single-handedly made the family's economic conditions better and better, taking care of her mother and sister.
His colleagues often remembered his warmth and kindness, and the assistant once said that she liked her red high heels, and she bought her a pair the next day.
In marriage, she also assumed the role of caregiver, giving silently, treating her husband's children as her own.
It's All Good", because her family is patriarchal, she is often treated unfairly. When she grew up, she had a successful career, and in turn often helped her younger brother who couldn't hold up the wall.
Although her parents treated him badly, she still continued to pay, taking the responsibility of supporting her parents on her own shoulders and satisfying the various unreasonable demands of her wonderful father.
Just because she was neglected since she was a child, her inner desire to be needed and valued is a way for her to reconcile with herself.
The giving personality is a neglected child who longs to be noticed, needed, and recognized by others, and desperately tries to be good to others. She also expects the same in return, but the results are often not satisfactory.
That's why netizens are so worried about the takeaway brother. The little brother works hard to earn money to support his family, without asking for anything in return, and his spirit is commendable. But one has to think of oneself.
He tried his best, but he didn't leave a little for himself, and he might not even be able to marry a daughter-in-law in the future. And the responsibility of taking care of the elderly will most likely fall on him. In the end, he is physically and mentally exhausted, has no one to rely on, and is likely to be disliked by his younger siblings who have achieved great learning.
It's not to sow discord and make people discordant in the family, but that human nature can't stand the test, great kindness is like great hatred, don't be too good to others, leave a few points for yourself.
My younger brother is already in college, so I can work and study to reduce my brother's burden. Moreover, these famous universities still take good care of some poor children. The elder brother can save some money for himself in case of emergency.
My brother doesn't have to arrange himself too tightly, take time out, learn some skills, improve himself, and give himself more possibilities.
Lovers must first learn to love themselves, only by loving yourself, others will feel that you are worthy of love.
endHello everyone, I am the mother of the post-80s Santai, while taking the baby, while being more literate, there are people who want to tease me together!