Unhappiness in life often gives us a deeper understanding of what true happiness is. Just as we can only understand who is right after going through the wrong person.
We all understand that no one can be perfect and live to everyone's satisfaction. Life is like eating, seven minutes of fullness is enough, and there is no need to pursue it excessively.
When the world gives you a thousand reasons to cry, you have to create a thousand and one reasons to fight it with a smile. When you feel lonely, it may not be a problem of no one with you, but no one really understands your heart.
Don't act out the life you are not good at for the sake of an audience that does not belong to you, because their existence does not make your life more exciting. Sometimes, waiting and giving may not be rewarded, the people you are expecting may not like you, and you may have missed them while waiting.
Even if life isn't what you want it to be, you should learn to accept it. What's the point of the world being indifferent to you?As long as the heart is full of sunshine, the pace will be firm, and the distance is in front of you.
Being angry and calculating with others will only make you lose more happiness, so we need to learn to be indifferent to everything. In the face of unavoidable external pressure, we need to deal with it calmly and live each day at our own pace, which is the most comfortable state. Keep your time, feelings, and money to yourself, and slowly feel the freedom of life.
Life does need to be properly compared, but don't worry too much about the outcome. It's good to have more money and less money, it's good to be ugly and handsome, and the key is to be healthy. The poor and the rich should be harmonious, and mutual understanding is the most important thing. In this world, the only thing you can rely on is yourself, so you must continue to strengthen yourself and face all difficulties calmly.
Eventually, you'll find that many ditches have to be crossed on your own.
Others can't help you forever, you need to solve problems on your own. That's life, and you have to accept that fact and grow Xi from it.