Raising children to prevent old age is a traditional concept in Chinese families, believing that having more children can provide security for one's later life. However, in reality, families with many children often face many problems. **See: Before the hospital bed, it is difficult to deal with families with many children. Although filial piety is an important value in Chinese culture, it is often difficult to achieve satisfactory results from excessive expectations and insufficient sincere dedication. In the hospital, ** often witness the conflicts and problems of families with many children.
Families with many children may appear harmonious on the surface, but a closer look reveals that there is often a hidden inequality. Between siblings, there are disputes and calculations over the degree of contribution and the rights and interests to be distributed. Those who contribute dislike the unfairness of the money, and those who contribute worry about the lack of effort. This inequality often leads to tensions and conflicts within the family, and even leads to quarrels and fights. In terms of medical care, the only child can directly sign off to make decisions, while families with many children often have problems such as responsibility and cost sharing. **In the article, it is concluded: In a family with many children, as long as a scoundrel is raised, things are very difficult.
Each person has a unique nature and personality, and even if they grow up in the same family environment, the character and personality of the offspring will be different. However, parenting styles and behaviors play an important role in the intimacy and mutual support between children. Many conflicts often stem from parental favoritism and unfair treatment. **Through the inducing behavior of the old lady in the palace in "Do You Know", it is explained that favoritism in the family can lead to disharmony and disunity between offspring.
Parents need to be wiser and fairer in educating their children, rather than indiscriminately favoring one child over the other. Unfair distribution in the family can easily lead to hatred and disharmony between siblings. ** It has been observed that one parent of a family with many children often bears more responsibilities, while the other siblings enjoy unfair treatment. This situation can make relationships within the family more strained, lacking solidarity and helping each other.
Raising children and preventing old age requires parents to have the qualities of wisdom and fairness in order to achieve their original intentions in a family with many children. Before choosing how many children to have, the family's financial situation and the parents' ability to handle it intelligently are key factors. Only financially prosperous and well-bred families can ensure equal treatment between siblings.
In reality, many families with many children face financial difficulties and a lack of parental understanding. ** Examples seen in hospital work are such common situations. Therefore, ** also put forward some conditions, including at least ensuring that the eldest child's life and education are not seriously affected, and that the woman can choose to have multiple children only if she can afford it.
Raising children to prevent old age has always been an important concept in Chinese families, but the problems and contradictions in reality have made people start to think about whether it is worth raising multiple children to protect their old age. The article points out the plight of families with many children and the challenges parents face when educating their children.
In my personal opinion, the concept of raising children to prevent old age needs to be revisited. While families with many children may provide some help with old age, this does not mean that all problems will be solved. Because family relationships are complex, the closeness and harmony between children does not depend on the number of children, but on the parent's education style and environment. In today's society, individual choice and autonomy have been given more and more attention, and raising children to prevent old age should not be imposed as a responsibility imposed on children.
Whether you are an only child or a family with many children, the most important thing is to cultivate the child's ability to be independent and self-reliant, so that they can consciously take responsibility for their own lives. For parents, it is important not only to focus on financial support, but also to pay attention to the mental health and growth of their children. Only in an equal and fair family environment can children care for and support each other, and create a harmonious and happy family.
Conclusion: In view of the problems and dilemmas of families with many children, what is said is true. Raising children to prevent old age is not a one-time solution, and parents need to have the qualities of wisdom and fairness to handle family relationships. In today's social conditions, where individual choice and autonomy are increasingly valued, raising children and preventing old age should not be a responsibility imposed on children. The most important thing is to cultivate children's ability to be independent and take responsibility for their own lives. Only in an equal and fair family environment can children care for and support each other, and create a harmonious and happy family.