The greatest gain of a person is to see the world clearly, to see the hearts of the people around him, to see his own heart, to know what he wants, and to know what he wants to live.
In this world, there are all kinds of people, and everything will happen, don't always think about changing others, and don't always ask others with your own standards, the most important thing is to do your best.
Everyone has their own story, everyone has their own secrets, everyone has their own tears, everyone has their own unwillingness, everyone has their own loneliness.
Many people are wearing masks and appearing in front of people, you may not be able to understand other people's minds, and you may not be able to read other people's thoughts, so why bother to dwell on other people's affairs?
There is no need to envy the happiness of others;There is no need to sympathize with the suffering of others;Someone else's secret, don't have to dig up;There is no need to comment on the rights and wrongs of others.
The most important thing in life is to be yourself, not to be bound by the world's vision, not to change your original intention because of the world's evaluation, and not to be bound by everything in the world.
A person's true maturity is not to look at others from a worldly perspective, nor to be defeated by a worldly vision, to respect others is to respect oneself, to be kind to others, is to be kind to oneself.
Life is one's own, and it has nothing to do with anyone other than oneself, and people who have the psychology of comparison, envy, jealousy and hatred will only make themselves physically and mentally exhausted and miserable.
Do not measure your own life by the measure of others;Don't use your own size to measure other people's lives, no matter how beautiful other people's shoes are, they may not be suitable for wearing them.
To live, we must know what we want, grasp the moment tightly, cherish the people in front of us, and firmly guard our own happiness, which is what a truly smart person should do.
Thousands of people have a thousand faces, life has a variety of situations, we must learn to accept reality, do not listen to biased beliefs, do not follow the clouds, manage your own heart, take your own way, is your own business.
There is not only one way to live in life, and there has never been a ruler in the world that can measure everyone's life, so respecting the value ranking and life choices of others is the highest level of cultivation for a person.
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Wen Ling is a freelance writer whose works have been published in major newspapers and online platforms. This article is the author's original work and requires permission from the author.