Hello everyone, I'm Mu Muxue!
At the end of every year, there is a sigh: time flies so fast, it seems that in a blink of an eye, the year is almost over.
Looking back on the year of 2023, I am constantly breaking through myself, from insisting on writing as a good thing to making money by writing, which has allowed me to regain my self-confidence.
I have become more self-disciplined, and I have gradually clarified the direction of my life, although there are still many regrets, anxieties and feelings of powerlessness in life, but I believe that if I persist, I will get better and better in the future.
Mr. Yang Jiang once said:
"In life, we need to have three consciousnesses, which are nothing more than knowing ourselves, refining ourselves, and consciously and voluntarily transforming ourselves. ”A person's true growth is the process of constantly breaking themselves, crumpling them, and then reinventing themI think the reason why the new year is exciting and exciting is because every new year is a new beginning, and we all have the opportunity to live our lives better again.
In the next 2024, I will adjust my mentality, be less anxious, enrich myself more, take care of my body, work hard to make money, adhere to long-termism, and continue to deepen my writing.
Be firm in your direction, keep taking action, reinvent yourself with self-discipline, and make yourself better and better.
Calm down and be less anxious;
In the past, I always loved to worry about myself, such as anxiety about my appearance, fear that I would not be able to make money, worry that others would not like me, and fear that my physical condition would deteriorate.
As everyone knows, in this fast-paced society, we have to face all kinds of pressures every day, work, family, study, interpersonal relationships, etc., these are normal and everyone will encounter them.
If you let yourself be anxious, you will only let your life fall into an endless internal friction.
So, in the next 2024, I have to learn to calm down a little bit, be less anxious, look at the positive side of everything more, and be more grateful for the good in life.
Socrates said
"Don't worry about what you can't control, but work on what you can. ”We can't control changes in the outside world, but we can control our attitudes, and we can choose to face difficulties positively instead of passively running away.
Keep reading and keep enriching yourself;
Liang Xiaosheng said:
"The purpose of reading is not to achieve much, but to give you an inner strength when you are beaten back into the quagmire by life. ”This inner strength can sustain us through the trough and finally usher in the dawn.
The reason why I like reading may be different from everyone else, because I was introverted and not good at communication, a lot of knowledge was obtained from books, and books had a great impact on me.
Through reading, I can get in touch with different people, things, things, and thoughts, understand the diversity and complexity of the world, and make me more knowledgeable and wise.
Later, after I came into contact with writing, reading became a lot of inspiration for my writing.
I think reading is a good habit, it can broaden my horizons, increase my knowledge, improve my thinking, and cultivate my sentiments.
As Bacon said:
"Reading enriches, talks makes quick, and writing makes precise. ”Persist in reading and constantly enrich ourselves, and we will find that our inner world is richer and deeper.
Regular work and rest, go to bed early and wake up early;
Work and rest are the foundation of our lives, and it directly affects our physical health, mental state, work efficiency and quality of life.
Zhuangzi. There is a sentence in "Let the King" that goes like this:
"The sun rises, the sun rests, and the mind is free between heaven and earth. ”Regular work and rest, early bedtime and early wake-up are good habits that allow us to keep our biological clock running normally and keep our bodies and minds in the best condition.
As we get older, especially after the age of 30, our body functions gradually decline
If we are still as undisciplined as we are in our teens and twenties, often have irregular schedules and rest, and stay up late, then our body is the first to do so.
It may be that there is no energy at the beginning, but after a long time, it may manifest as physical problems, such as immune problems, mood deterioration, etc.
Therefore, in the next 2024, I will pay more attention to regular work and rest, ensure adequate sleep, and let my body get sufficient rest and recovery every day.
In this way, you will have more energy to do what you like and get closer to your goals.
Keep exercising and take care of your body;
In the past, I always felt that being young was about fighting hard, even at the expense of my health.
But now I'm changing my mind about it, because everything else is less important when it comes to health.
In the past year, I have felt the importance of good health.
It is really only when people get sick that they understand the importance of health.
Maugham said:
"A healthy body is the living room of the soul, and a sick body is the prison cell of the soul. ”A healthy body is the foundation of everything, and only when you have a healthy body can you have the opportunity to talk about other things.
So next, while working hard, you should also insist on exercising and taking care of your body.
I hope to improve my physical health through exercise, so that I have enough energy to do what I want to do.
Work hard to make money and make yourself better;
Russell once said:
"Life is not about making money, but making money is about a better life. ”I used to think that a person who made money was very materialistic. Only now do I feel that making money is the greatest sobriety of an adult.
A life without money is really easy to hit walls everywhere and live unsatisfactorily.
Money is sometimes a really good thing, it irons out the wrinkles in life.
When we make money on our own, life will be different.
We will become more confident and confident, and our lives will be more free and smooth.
I've really made some money from writing this year, and the biggest change is that I've become more confident.
But because of physical reasons, almost all the money earned is spent in the hospital, let alone saved.
Life is still tight, and sometimes it is difficult to get some money for your parents to make their lives better.
So in the next 2024, we must work harder to make money, make more money, and make our lives better.
Adhere to long-termism and deepen the cultivation of a field.
Wang Yangming once said:
"A man must grind in things before he can stand. A person's attitude towards doing things determines the height of her life. A person's most powerful ability: to be able to cultivate deeply, dare to break the situation, and know how to continue. ”Time is the friend of long-termism, and it will bring us one by one what we deserve.
In the years since I graduated, I have found that most of the people who are doing well are long-termists, and they have chosen a field they like and continued to work on it.
Although their pace is slow, they never give up. Over the years, it is the one they have gone further in their favorite fields.
And those who are impetuous, looking at this mountain higher than that, are still mixed at the bottom of society.
I've had this experience before, always can't calm down, always feel that something else is better, and don't focus on what I'm doing at the moment, so that I'm still messing badly.
So, in the next 2024, I hope that I can calm down, go to the field of writing that I love, and stick to it.
Although there may not be a big breakthrough in the short term, I firmly believe that if I continue to improve my writing ability, it will eventually bring me the compound interest I expect.
The above six habits of reinventing yourself hope to inspire you.
Rites. University said:
"Gou is new, every day is new, and every day is new. ”Really powerful people know how to constantly reinvent themselves, renew themselves, and continue to grow.
2024 is a new beginning and a new opportunity, may we reinvent ourselves with self-discipline and make ourselves better.
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Author: Mu Muxue, a self-leading writer who focuses on personal growth and is trying to run to freedom, may we become a better version of ourselves through hard work and live the life we yearn for.Start planning for my 2024