Only after experiencing it can you understand how painful it is to have a loveless marriage and a marriage that marries people in anger. At the beginning, my second sister was forced to marry because of my mother's constant forced marriage, saying a lot of hurtful things, coupled with the eldest sister's hard persuasion, the second sister was exhausted, and finally chose to reunite with her boyfriend who had already broken up. 
At that time, not long after the two broke up, the second sister was found to be 1 month pregnant, and the child's father was an ex-boyfriend. In fact, after four years of getting along, the second sister and her boyfriend reunited, noisy and noisy, and their relationship had long been exhausted. The two later broke up harmoniously, and the second sister originally planned to kill this untimely child. But she didn't tell her family about the two of them, and her mother was very anxious when she saw that her second sister had not married for many years, so she often urged her to get married, and sometimes attacked her personally. Later, the annoying second sister couldn't stand the various urgings of the family, so she proposed to marry her boyfriend who had already broken up. 
The twisted melon is not sweet, although the two got married in the end, but after half a year of marriage, the second sister couldn't stand the cold violence of her in-law's family, and divorced after half a year. Since then, the second sister has always been single and has never touched a relationship again, and she has left the child to be raised by the man, but she will regularly remit child support every month, and occasionally bring a baby. Now her life is nothing but work and work. Actually, I feel very sorry for this sister, when I know the relationship history between her and her ex-brother-in-law, I also blame her for being irresponsible in her life, since she doesn't love it, why should she get married, give birth to a child, and divorce, which is somewhat unfair to the child, and at the same time makes her life less choice. My sister once told me that she got married with a devastating mood because of her mother's urging and slander, which made people feel distressed and distressed, even if she now knows that she was wrong, but some things happened and happened. Every step in life counts, and there is no regret medicine to take in life, only to move forward bravely. 
Now, the second sister is almost 40 years old, she said that she doesn't plan to find a boyfriend in this life, and it's good to live alone, no mother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationship, no miscellaneous housework, travel if you want to, take the baby if you want to, don't bring it if you want to, live a chic and casual life, and sometimes make us people who fall in trivial married life a little envious! The origin of my sister's failed marriage is because her original mentality was not up to par, and those who can hurt us are the people we pay attention to. What my mother said at the beginning was just angry words, you don't have to take it to heart, the concept of my parents' generation is that I raised you and then married you off, even if the task is completed, but sometimes such a concept will harm the children for a lifetime and change their lives. To live is to learn to reconcile with ourselves, and it is important to learn to redeem ourselves.