ParentsTo usof kindnessLike a high mountain and a deep sea, as children, we have to spend a lifetime to repay this selfless nurturing grace.
When you notice that your parents are old, please stop doing these 3 things to them immediately, many people regret it.
01: Stop losing your temper with your parents
In the whole world, the last thing they should lose their temper with their parents is their children.
I once did something that I regretted for the rest of my life. My mother, an illiterate mother who had no contact with the outside world for many years. The outside world is developing rapidly, and she only guards her few acres of land, bending over, and sending me to college all the way. After work, I bought her a smartphone with my meagre salary.
But at this time, she was already old and dizzy, and her memory began to decline. I taught her how to use the smartphone over and over again, but she didn't learn it. At first, I was considerate of my mother, but then I became more and more impatient, and finally, I couldn't control myself, lost my temper with her, and said, "You are really annoyed, no matter how I teach you, you can't." Looking at my mother's sad expression, I shook my hand away without looking back.
Until the evening, looking at my mother's clumsy and thin back in the kitchen, I suddenly regretted it, who impatiently fed me over and over again when I was a child?And who taught me to walk over and over again?Who is the one who has no regrets for me to go to college and give me a bright future?
Be patient as a child, give your parents more time, and help them adjust to the rhythm of the new society.
So, stop blaming our parents and embrace everything about them, just as they did when they raised themselves, they were naughty themselves.
02: Don't do it againBlameParents too
Everyone has their own responsibilities to shoulder, don't blame your parents for all misfortunes.
There is a man in my community who specializes in gnawing on the elderly. After he graduated, he couldn't find a job, so he went home and picked up his old age. When he was asked to work, he always accused his parents of failing to provide good living conditions, which led to him being looked down upon by his classmates when he was in school, so he lived a very low self-esteem.
Then he complained that his parents did not have a prominent family background, and they failed to find a good relationship for themselves and get a decent enough job. It seems that all his current misfortunes are caused by his parents, and his parents just bow their heads and remain silent, silently bearing his groundless accusations and supporting him.
It is a pity that couples who are over half a hundred years old still have to go out to work for a living. It wasn't until later, when the two husbands and wives passed away one after another, that he suddenly woke up to the fact that his parents were not wrong, but he was wrong.
You just lookSee you alsoDidn't eat meat,AbsolutelyI don't knowYoursParentsEarlyAlreadyputWhite noodlespointsGivenowYou,But he was hungry. So, please don't blame your parents for not giving you a good life, they have given you almost everything they can give you. If you want to change your life, pleaseWith their own efforts,Work arduously.
03: Stop blaming your parents
ParentsOldnowIt's getting more and more verbose, and my memory is getting worse and worse, which is a necessary processBut their love for you has always remained the same
As children, you should give your parents more patience and don't blame your parents and make them sad.
Xiao Yang lives alone in a bachelor apartment, free. But one day, her mother came to visit quietly, quietly cleaned all the hygiene, and made a table full of dishes before Xiao Yang got off work.
After getting off work, Xiao Yang was not surprised but accused, and said to him: "Mom, are you sick, why didn't you come without saying hello" The smile on her mother's face disappeared as soon as she brushed it, so she had to silently pack her luggage and go home. After his mother left, he looked at the renovated house, and suddenly, Xiao Yang felt ashamed and immediately ran to the train station to find his elderly mother.
Life is only a few decades, how long can I stay with my mother, why waste time in these unpleasantness.
So please don't be an elderly parent, no matter what you do, they want to be good for you, and be sure to give more patience and care in life.
peopleLife,It's fleetingWhen we get olderoftimeusof parentsThere is no longer the time of youthofTraces, their body, theirMemory, bothInSlowlyGround consumptionlostThere is not much time left for them, please treat them well.
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