Mo Yan's words made me think a lot, and it also made me think a lot. There are indeed many complex reasons behind men looking for women after the age of 60, and these three reasons may be the most direct.
First, men may want to find a partner to share the joys and pains of life. As people get older, they will gradually experience various setbacks and difficulties, including physical health problems, financial stress, family relationships, and more. These questions can make a man feel lonely and helpless and need a woman to be there for him, to support and encourage him. At the same time, a man may also want to have a partner to share the beauty of life together, such as travel, food, movies, and so on. This partnership can bring them a sense of spiritual fulfillment and comfort that makes them feel more fulfilled and happy.
Second, men may want to find a partner to take care of the family and children together. In traditional Chinese culture, men are often regarded as the pillars and heads of the family. When a man turns 60, he may face problems such as having grown up children**, leaving the family, and he himself may need to take care of elderly parents or other family members. In this case, a man may need a woman to help him take care of the family and children, such as cooking, laundry, caregiving, and many more. Such a partnership can make a man feel more at ease and stable, and it can also reduce the stress and burden of his life.
In the end, men may simply want to find a partner to meet their emotional needs. As people age, their physical and emotional state gradually declines, and a partner can bring them a sense of spiritual support and comfort. This kind of emotional support can make a man feel happier and more satisfied, and it can also make him feel more confident and courageous to face the challenges and difficulties in life. At the same time, a woman can also get a kind of emotional satisfaction and comfort through this relationship, so that she can better face her life and problems.
Of course, the above three reasons are not all reasons, and not all men will have such needs after the age of 60. Everyone's situation and needs are different, so every man will have his own considerations and motivations when looking for a partner. At the same time, we cannot ignore other possible reasons, such as some men may be looking for a partner just to satisfy their sexual needs, or some men may be looking for young and beautiful women just to show off their wealth and social status. These actions are immoral and should be condemned.
In short, the phenomenon of "men looking for women after the age of 60" mentioned by Mo Yan does exist, and the reasons behind it are also diverse. We should respect everyone's choices and rights, and at the same time condemn those who are immoral. In the process of finding a partner, we should maintain a genuine, trusting, respectful and inclusive attitude, while also focusing on our physical and mental health and quality of life. Only in this way can we find a partner who is truly suitable for us and spend a good old age together.