In today's practice, I see many people on the Internet and in reality, who attach great importance to what others say about them, especially young people.
Many young people, after being praised by others, have some enthusiasm, a little feeling that they can't touch the north, and after being praised by others, they feel that they are omnipotent and invincible.
After being praised by others, he can't find the north, which can be manifested as a young man who is praised and says that he must be able to pursue a beautiful girl. In fact, the praised guy is still in college, and at this time he should still focus on his studies.
The guy himself didn't have the idea of pursuing a girl, but, in the face of other people's praise, the guy began to pursue the girl he didn't like in the first place in order to prove his excellence.
When pursuing the girl, the guy abandoned his studies, spent a lot of time and energy, and spent a lot of money, but as a result, the girl did not catch up, and wasted his time, energy, and money in vain.
This kind of behavior of the guy is to lose himself by the praise of others, this kind of code of conduct is to live in the shadow of others, and what is even more ridiculous is that the guy can pursue the girl, those who praise the guy don't care at all.
Because praising the guy was just what they said casually at the time, even if the guy chased the girl, the people who originally praised the guy would just say: "Yes, you are very good"!Probably won't even say a word, because they've long forgotten that they've complimented you.
It's up to you to decide what path you want to take, just listen to what others say, and don't get lost in others' evaluations of you, because when others say 100 words, it's rare to have a few words that are valuable to you.
I remember there is a proverb in the West, when you are in your twenties, you care a lot about what others say about you, when you are in your thirties, after going through a lot, you will become less concerned about what others say about you, and when you are in your forties, you will find that in fact, others never really care about you.
Because others are already very tired of their own business, how can they really care about you?You're not a close friend or family with them.
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