I'll tell you how you feel it, it's that you gave birth to me.
Our family of three should be regarded as a model family of around, happy, loving mother and child, how much effort and financial resources my parents have invested in me since I was a child, and my previous answer has also listed a lot.
And my gratitude and small rewards to my parents have not stopped since I had the ability to make money. For example, in college, I take the lowest living expenses among my peers, and I rely on my own hands to earn pocket money part-time, for example, in the first year of graduation and work, even if I earn 3k per month, I will give my parents and grandfather red envelopes during the New Year, and the red envelopes are getting thicker and thicker year by year.
For example, on birthdays, Father's Day, and Mother's Day, they all change their ways to make red envelopes, and I think they don't necessarily like to buy gifts. This year, I used the money I had saved for 7 years to buy a new car for my father.
I think our family's dedication to each other is worthy of each other, and worthy of being a family in this life.
It stands to reason that I shouldn't have anything to complain about, right?But in fact, after 6 years of elementary school, 3 years of junior high school, and 3 years of high school, after my family and society drew a big pie for me that "I will get better in college", I experienced nothing at all, including the curse of "I will get better when I join the job", but the reality tells me that I don't.
The difficulty of work, the difficulty of grasping interpersonal relationships, the gap between friends, and the pain of lovers ......The piles and piles in this world have made me eat all the sourness.
It is true that when there is discomfort, there is joy, and when there are tears, there is a smile, which is dialectical. However, I think it's really cruel for our parents to choose to give birth to us after knowing the suffering in this world, and then repeat the mistakes of the past.
I'd rather not have this blessing, it's too tiring to be a man. The days are becoming more and more repetitive, the meaning is becoming more and more meaningless, all kinds of unbelievable current affairs news make me feel even more ridiculous, and the development of the Internet has made the gap between the rich and the poor more and more aggravated. The outrageous words of high-income people such as big Vs, Internet celebrities, and celebrities are deeply rooted in the hearts of ordinary people.
If there is so much suffering to endure, can you not give birth to us in the first place?