The longer you are a friend, the less likely you are to fall in love with them

Mondo Social Updated on 2024-01-19

My name is Xiaoli, a typical Gemini girl, sociable and eloquent. At a party, I met him, a calm Taurus boy - Xiaoyu. When we first met, his composure and my liveliness created a wonderful chemistry. That night, we talked very speculatively, as if we had found a soulmate.

Over time, our friendship deepened. We often eat together, watch movies, go shopping, and share the joys and sorrows of life with each other. I found Xiaoyu to be a very attentive person who was always available to help me when I needed it. And I am also willing to give him advice and help him solve some problems. Our relationship grew closer and closer, but I always felt that we were just friendships and never had the idea of love.

Until one day, on a rainy night, we walked together on the way home. The rain drenched our clothes and hair, but we didn't care, enjoying the rare peace of mind. Xiao Yu suddenly stopped, looked at me, and said affectionately, "Xiaoli, do you know?"Actually, I've liked you for a long time, but I've never dared to confess because I'm afraid of losing you as a friend. "When I heard his words, I was shocked and my heart was racing, but I didn't know how to respond.

When I got home, I lay on the bed and thought about Xiaoyu's words repeatedly. I'll admit that I also had a crush on him, but I always felt that our friendship was more precious. I'm afraid that if we really get together, we will break up because of personality differences and conflicts, and we won't even be able to be friends at that time. I decided to talk to Xiaoyu and see what he really thought.

The next day, we met at a park. I was honest about my concerns and concerns, and he said, "I understand your idea, but I think we can give it a try." If we really don't fit, then go back to the position of friends, at least we tried. Looking at his serious expression, I hesitated for a moment, and finally decided to give him a chance.

We began a brief romance. During this period, we experienced many good times together, but also experienced quarrels and conflicts. I found that there are real personality differences between us, but we are both willing to work hard and change for each other. However, as time went on, I found that my feelings for him never rose to the height of love. I feel like we're better suited to be friends than lovers.

After struggling for a while, I decided to confess my feelings to Xiaoyu. He was silent for a moment, then nodded slightly: "I understand, in fact, I feel this way too." Maybe we're really just fit to be friends. We looked at each other and smiled, and the stone in our hearts finally landed. We know that no matter what the future holds, we will cherish this friendship.

Conclusion: The longer you are a friend, the less likely you are to fall in love with them. But we don't regret our attempts and efforts, because we know how to cherish and be grateful. May everyone who wanders between love and friendship find their own happy home. Whatever the outcome, at least we had that good memory.

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