Shandong's mother and son did not get along with the "examination of the public", which caused controversy and threatened to sever relations.
If you don't take the public exam, I will cut off the mother-son relationship with you!A few days ago, a male netizen in Shandong disclosed on the Internet that his mother was angry because she didn't want to continue to participate in the public *** and said such radical words. This story of the alienation of the mother-son relationship has also sparked widespread discussion on the Internet.
The mother's forced examination was refused.
According to the netizen, this year he participated in the Shandong Provincial Public Education but he felt that his performance was not ideal, and he was tired of this kind of examination-oriented education, so he planned to give up continuing to take the public examination and choose to be self-employed.
What he didn't expect was that when he informed his mother of his thoughts, his mother took a tough attitude, believing that he must continue to take the public examination or "sever the mother-son relationship".
Later, his mother ridiculed him for being as "unreasonable" as his father, and "wished" him a hard job and a happy game in the future. In this regard, the netizen was very disgusted in his heart, and resolutely stated that he had his own life plan and would not follow his mother's arrangement to take the public examination.
My mother still believes that it will be very difficult to live without public office, and the public examination is the safest way out. The two had a heated argument over the issue.
Parents are well-intentioned and want their children to have a secure life.
Regarding this contradiction, many netizens expressed their views on different positions. Many people believe that it is understandable that parents want their sons to become dragons and their daughters to become phoenixes, and they are just wishful thinking that their children will have a decent and stable job.
Public work has two weekends off, and better wages and benefits, so parents can worry less. The starting point of this consideration lies in the care for children, so children should also be grateful and not blindly work against their elders.
However, it was also pointed out that the parents' actions in this matter were inappropriate. For example, the threat of severing the relationship is too extreme, and this relationship is by no means the attitude that a loving mother should have. It is also a personal freedom for children to choose to develop independently without taking public examinations, and parents should not interfere with it.
At the same time, the public examination is not the only way out in life. It is possible to live a decent life in employment or entrepreneurship, and parents should respect and support their children's choices.
Understand the generation gap moderately and wait for change on an equal footing.
Regarding the elders of the mother and son, the outside world comments also seem to be more biased towards the mother. Because in their opinion, the relationship between mother and son is close, and this kind of radical remarks may be just a momentary anger and will not really be broken.
Therefore, properly understand the traditional thinking of the mother's generation and wait for her attitude to soften;At the same time, it should be wiser to stick to your career plan and prove that you can live a good life by making your own choices.
Contemporary people pursue career independence, and they also crave the recognition of their families, especially their elders. It is hoped that the mother and son, who have fallen into a misunderstanding, can find the best of both worlds and achieve understanding and compromise over time.