Yesterday at noon, I didn't want to cook, so my husband went to do it, and when the meal was almost ready, he called me, and when I went to the kitchen, he was serving the meal outside.
Suddenly I felt that the years were quiet, and I sighed: "I think it's so fast, I've been married to you for 16 years, and my son is 16 years old." ”
My husband replied to me, "I feel that I am passing quickly, and that is because you have not been wronged." I often let you live that kind of very painful life, and it must be like a year. ”
Come to think of it, he's right. gave birth to two sons, I didn't care much, or my husband took care of it more, I don't have to worry about anything, I haven't suffered much, and I naturally feel that life goes by quickly.
I suddenly understood that I saw a sentence on the Internet: "If a woman marries the right person or not, she will know if she has a child." "It can be seen in these three stages.
First, during pregnancy.
A netizen cried in the background, saying that she originally worked outside with her husband, but after she became pregnant, her husband asked her to go home to give birth.
didn't go home with her, in the name of being for the child's milk powder money, she went back to her hometown with great expectations, and her mother-in-law didn't care about her at all.
She needs to cook and wash her own clothes, and go to the hospital for a pregnancy test alone, if she doesn't want to move one day, her mother-in-law will say that she is hypocritical, and she has to work in the field when she is pregnant with several children.
Finally waited until the day of childbirth, my husband hurried back, but only stayed in the hospital for one day, and after giving birth to the child, he took a look and hurried back to work.
Netizens later learned that her husband didn't really go to work at all, but got involved with other women outside during her pregnancy.
She couldn't understand that she had died to give birth to a child for him, but he couldn't bear to betray her lonely.
Not to mention that there are many such things, a man knows that his wife is pregnant and can't satisfy him, so he can't control himself and does things that hurt his wife.
If you are irresponsible to your family and unfaithful to your wife, you will not have a good life in the future.
Second, in confinement.
In a mediation column, the wife insisted on a divorce, and the husband still felt very innocent, and the mediator asked her why she wanted a divorceThe wife replied.
After giving birth to the child, the husband didn't care, the child slept upside down, fell asleep during the day, and cried endlessly at night, and the husband thought it was too noisy to affect his sleep, so he had to move to another room to sleep.
She had a caesarean section, the wound was still very painful, and no one took care of the child, so she had to coax the child all night. I can't sleep very sleepy.
There was no milk, the child was so hungry that she cried, she asked her mother-in-law to stew some meat when she made a confinement meal, so that she could get milk, but her mother-in-law didn't buy her because the meat was expensive.
She complained to her husband, and her husband also told her to endure it, saying that her mother would not treat her badly after a few months.
After hearing about it, my mother-in-law sent eggs and pig's trotters, but my husband and mother-in-law ate more than half of them.
A man who doesn't even want to take care of his wife and children in confinement has no sense of responsibility, he only loves himself, not his wife, and living with such a man is like hell.
Three, after the full moon.
I once saw a story that after a woman was full moon, her husband and mother-in-law said that the family had a lot of expenses and asked her to go out to work.
She felt that the child was too young and needed someone to take care of her, and she was not worried that her mother-in-law could take such a small child.
So she said that when the child was a little older, she would go out again, although her husband didn't say anything more.
But when the woman reached out to him and asked him for money to buy daily necessities, the husband asked her to make an IOU and ask her to return it to him when she went to work.
The woman went back to her parents' house in a fit of rage, and her husband and mother-in-law secretly laughed, saying that someone had raised children for them.
And when the woman filed for divorce, her husband and mother-in-law panicked, but instead said that a woman lives in her mother's house every day, and she is not really living.
The face full of calculations is as disgusting as it is, the woman doesn't know people clearly, she went to the ghost gate and gave birth to a child, and the man's family didn't cherish it at all, and only took her as the wronged leader.
Every girl is the baby of her parents, and if she marries the right person, she continues to be the baby's heart, and if she marries the wrong person, she is just a tool for the other party.
Having a child is a watershed in a marriage, as long as you are meticulous and cared for in the whole process of giving birth, there is a high probability that the future will not be too bad.
On the contrary, when she gave birth to a child, she saw the ugly face of a man, and a smart woman should think clearly about whether there is a need for this marriage to continue.