Marriage is really a happy and headache event. In today's society, love and marriage are no longer the simple model of "from the beginning" in the past.
People pay more attention to self-worth and freedom, and their pursuit of love is also more diverse and open. However, for a marriage that has cheated, whether to remarry or choose the freedom of being single, everyone's thoughts and choices will be different. But when faced with an ex-husband's request to remarry, especially when it comes to children, the choice becomes complicated and tangled.
Miss Liu has been divorced for 4 years, Miss Liu is 38 years old this year, she has been divorced for 4 years, with a boy, and she has also come into contact with many people during this period. But it turns out that all the people who come into contact with her are just short-term choices for her, they just like the feeling of being taken care of by her, and they don't say a word about getting married. She originally wanted to find a father for her children and form a happy family, but the experience was that it was difficult to find someone who really cared about her, her children. Between husband and wife halfway, what else can they do except guard and calculate?They have all reached this age, they have all experienced life, who is unrealistic, who is not selfish?
After several struggles, she no longer insisted that a second marriage was not necessarily better than a second marriage, but she didn't want to go back to her marriage because she had nothing to say about the cold war every day, and she disliked her marriage everywhere. If you can't find the right person, not getting married is also a good option.
The reason for remarriage is that we have already experienced a loss and will now know how to cherish each other more.
You just want a hug, you accidentally have an extra kiss, and then you find out that you need a bed, a suite, a certificate, and when you get divorced, you remember that you only wanted a hug. The reason why Maizi chose to remarry was because she wanted to return to her previous embrace. If divorce is impulsive, remarriage is deliberate. Rightly or wrongly, Maizi will not regret the decision he made today.
You see, when the other half of a marriage cheats - someone chooses to break up with dignity;Some people choose to tear in every possible way;There are also people who choose to *** and start all over again. In fact, in my opinion, the choice has nothing to do with right or wrong, only the result is right and wrong. Some people remarry to regain happiness, and some people remarry to throw themselves into the fire pit. It's up to you and the man you walk into marriage to still be trustworthy;It also depends on whether your reasons for divorcing him in the first place are firm enough.
At the end of the article, Xiaoqing also wants to ask you: What do you think about the second marriage and remarriage?Have you ever encountered a similar story in your life?