What is a real connection?
Good birds choose trees to perch, and virtuous ministers choose their masters, it's not too early to see the opportunity, and it's too late to regret it.
The meaning of this sentence is that the black class will choose good trees as a resting place, and a good old minister will choose Mingjun, if you don't think of this, you will regret it too late now.
If you are with a group of bullies, you will be treated as a bully even if you don't do anything, and it will be difficult for you to get rid of this label later.
It is important for people to follow the right people, to do the right things, and to say dialogue.
Nowadays, some people are busy connecting with all kinds of people every day, tossing and turning in various drinking and dinner parties, chatting passionately, and calling brothers and sisters to establish a relationship, but they don't remember who the other person is after a few days. These social activities, which occupy most of your time and energy, are busy for half a day but get nothing, and in the end you end up fetching water in a bamboo basket.
The real network is not how many people are in your mobile phone, not how many people like your circle of friends, not to mention that you use your right to point fingers at your subordinates, and not to mention that others nod to you. The real network is not in useless social networking, but when you are in trouble and need help from others, others will take the initiative to help you. It's the connections that can be used!
Networking is an invisible **, which cannot be shown at ordinary times, but can play a role at critical times. Connections are made by getting along with each other, and they gradually become stronger in the course of their interactions. The interaction between people does not rely on routines, but on sincerity. A real connection is a real friend, and if you want to get a real friend, you have to exchange sincerity for sincerity. You cherish others, and others can cherish you. If you are honest with each other, others will not be scheming. There are no fools in the world, and the real fools are often the ones who treat others as fools. The real connection is not in the routine, but in the heart;Not in quantity, but in quality;Not the icing on the cake, but the charcoal in the snow.
Don't go to the useless social work, when you are strong, you will naturally meet some strong people, as the so-called "Wu Gao Feng will come, flowers and butterflies will come".
Li Ka-shing said: "When you are not strong enough, don't spend too much time socializing, you should spend more time studying and improving your professional skills." ”
When you are not strong enough, people you can know who are stronger than you will not look up to you and will not treat you as an equal. Participating in such social activities will only make you feel less confident, less and less confident in yourself, and hurt yourself.
In today's era of social activism, people are often burdened by social activities and fall into a seemingly endless social pursuit. For many, however, this socialization has not led to substantial change or upliftment. Therefore, we need to examine whether we are overly involved in these meaningless social interactions, or we should focus more on our own growth and improvement.
When you really become strong, good people or things will naturally be drawn to you. This natural attraction stems from the individual's inner charm and achievement, rather than external effort and utilitarianism.
For example, many successful business leaders have their own unique charisma and abilities, and instead of achieving success through frequent and unnecessary social activities, they focus on improving themselves and developing their abilities and character. For example, Jeff Bezos, the founder of Amazon, barely participated in any social events in the early stages, instead focusing most of his energy on the development and growth of the company. Similarly, Facebook's Mark Zuckerberg is building on his personal achievements and vision, attracting a large number of top talents in the future.
At the same time, there are many similar cases in the field of culture and arts. ** giants like Beethoven and Mozart, or art masters like Leonardo da Vinci and Michelangelo, all with their outstanding talent and hard work, have attracted a large number of fans and followers, and have become eternal artistic icons.
In short, socialization is important, but more important is inner cultivation and strength. When we are improving ourselves and cultivating our own abilities, we don't need to deliberately pursue social interaction, and success and excellent people will come to you. This is just like the meaning expressed by "the phoenix will come, the flowers and butterflies will come", its own strength and attraction can naturally bring together more opportunities and excellent partners, so that our life is more colorful. I am Shangguan Jingfeng, welcome to join me in the ** investment management way!