Agree with one sentence:
In fact, the person who is really suitable for you is never the person who can't be loved, but the person who sees through your temperament and temper, and still chooses to stay with you without caring about anything.Not all love can be reciprocated, not all efforts will be cherished, and not all partners can be with each other for a lifetime.
On this road, there are too many divisions and combinations, too many feelings that have to be necessary, and too many calculations that are obscure.
Whether love can last a lifetime, whether it has come to an end, there are still a few performances to follow.
It's too late to say I love you", after Murong Feng learned that his lover Yin Jingwan was pregnant, he still said "affectionately", I want to marry Cheng Jinzhi is just an expedient measure, you give me two or three years, and I will win the country and give it to you.
With a fluttering sentence, his wife Yin Jingwan became a concubine, and even had to be sent abroad to live in anticipation of him, waiting for him, and accompanying him.
days. Even if she is pregnant, the child and her lover cannot make Murong Feng give up the marriage with rich rewards.
Zhang Ailing said:
How can there be love in this world who can't be together, there must be someone who lied, if true love will be desperate to be together, it's nothing more than weighing the pros and cons, no exceptions.When a man can no longer give you enough security, and even doesn't care when he sees you suffering from gains and losses, do you have to consider: does he still love you?
A man who really loves you will not be willing to let you fall into internal friction and be unable to extricate yourself, but he will remove all obstacles, just to make you feel at ease and down-to-earth.
And the man who weighs and thinks about it again and again is nothing more than not loving enough and thinking too much, he has to think clearly about how to be more beneficial to himself and how to benefit himself the most.
Everything else can make way for this, even if it is a lover who once swore an oath, it can't stop him from "going up".
The evaluation of the daddy man on the Internet is both positive and negative, and the praise is a father-like warm and caring man;The pejorative term is a man who likes to point fingers and educate others.
My friend Xiaotang and her husband started a new round of cold war, and it was a very happy thing to travel, but her husband never gave Xiaotang a chance to speak.
Just go to Sanya, it's right to go south in winter", "Don't bring a flower skirt, buy it there", "Women, long hair and short knowledge".
Xiaotang couldn't bear it and put on a posture of refusing to cooperate and communicate.
A very realistic passage:
I didn't marry you to taste the suffering of the world, but to experience happiness, if you are always wronged and compromised, then forget it.Why does the daddy husband make women hate it so much?
Because, he only points fingers to show that he is better than you, so he only cares about talking to himself and ignores you.
If his wife tolerates his fatherly taste, it will only make him raise his expectations and meddle in more things after he is satisfied.
Therefore, when the partner becomes more and more fatherly, the woman must insist on being herself, don't be too obedient and submissive, that will only make him worse - he says his, you do yours;Don't elevate the other person, don't belittle yourself.
One of my readers sent a message about a disappointed husband, how can he break it?
Wenwen and her husband have not been married for a long time, but they are becoming more and more disheartened, she said: I am accumulating disappointments, and I will divorce when I have saved enough.
In the first year of marriage, Wenwen carefully prepared a candlelight dinner, but her husband suddenly realized after seeing this, although he immediately ran out to buy gifts, but Wenwen's good mood was all broken.
The next year, her husband wanted to surprise her, who knew that the company had arranged a leadership meeting again, so a good day was spent in disappointment.
A good love marriage is not two people who can be tied together at any time, nor is it always putting each other first.
After all, without a career and friends, it is difficult to sustain a love life alone.
Therefore, both men and women in marriage must maintain a normal heart, evaluate and feel the quality of love from a holistic perspective, and not just focus on the negative.
Sanmao wrote:
Love, if not implemented in the real life of dressing, eating, counting money, and sleeping, is not easy to last forever.I asked Wenwen if she could try to find a little sweetness in her marriage
As a result, she said seven or eight good moments at once.
Is love coming to an end?Don't be too pessimistic and focus on the negative, feel from your sense of security and the rapport of your partner.
A good love marriage is like a spring breeze, warm and comfortable;A bad love marriage is like a cold wind, cold and suffocating.
Love, marriage, emotion
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I'm Qingcheng. A psychologist with temperature, ** is a life recorder.