Feelings are never sudden, and they certainly haven't been planned for a long time. Don't talk nonsense, just say the conclusion, and then tell you the reasons and remedies. Ambiguous woman, suddenly ignore you, for two reasons:Subjective misjudgment and objective error
1. Subjective misjudgmentYou think that the woman is having an affair with you, but in fact, people are just chatting with you normally. Because you like people, you bring in too much emotion and are sensitive to some words. For example, if a girl makes a joke with you, you will also think that she is interesting to you. I've met some of my brothers, just because the girl told him that he hated it. He felt that the girl already liked him. You say, what makes sense of this?There is also a situation where you regard ambiguity as too important, and you will take it for granted that once a woman talks to you ambiguously, she must develop in a good direction and result. Once a woman is cold to you and ignores you, you feel incredible and can't accept it. Actually, it's very simple, girls talk to you ambiguously, that's playing, and it doesn't mean anything. 2. Objective errorsMany guys don't know the rules of getting along with women, which can lead to a lot of mistakes. To sum up, it is basically divided into two categories: rhythmic errors and detail errors.
1. The rhythmic type is simply understood, because the advance is too fast or too slow, resulting in an imbalance in the relationship. For example, some boys, seeing that they have a good chat with a girl, feel that they should strike while the iron is hot. All kinds of words began to bombard, and the girls thought it was good, but in this wave of operations, the girls would feel that the purpose was too strong, and then slowly alienated. In addition, there are some boys who should upgrade their relationship, but he is afraid that it will be too fast, which will make women uncomfortable, and as a result, they miss the opportunity. Women will feel dull and boring, and thus become unexpected. In a word, rhythmic mistakes are not doing the right thing at the right time.
2. Detail errors.
Mistakes in details, mostly without careful consideration of the way and wording of speech, lead to a bad impression on girls. For example, what could have been simple and clear was instead said in a wordy way. It will make women think that you are not a gentleman, grinding and chirping.
There is no logic in speech, and the expression is not clear. It will make women feel that you are low-value.
Now that we've talked about the reasons, let's talk about the remedy.
Mistakes caused by subjective misjudgments, there's nothing to say, and if there's one piece of advice that I have to give, it's not to take your feelings too seriously. After all, anything can happen before you become your girlfriend, so be at ease.
Mainly, it is a remedy for objective errors.
1. Control the rhythm of the chat Each time you elevate the relationship, remember to release. For example, if you talk to a girl and hug, then the next sentence must be, don't take advantage of me. Instead of going blindly up.
2. Chat personifies different characters, and the words spoken are different. If you don't, go and observe.
For example, how the leader speaks, how the warm man speaks, how the domineering president speaks, in short, in the specific chat scene, what feelings you need to convey, just find the corresponding identity positioning, and substitute the identity.
That's all for today, do you understand?For more chasing girl skills and emotional love issues, it is very interesting to pay attention to Brother Yue