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There is a song whose lyrics read: Ambiguity makes people suffer a lot of grievances, and they can't find evidence of love.
This is everyone who is in an ambiguous period, with some expectation and a little confusion in the panic.
Two people enter an ambiguous period, friends cross the line, lovers are not full, I thought they were waiting for the opportunity to take a step forward, but in fact the other party did not have any idea of further development, so they always withdrew suddenly, leaving you alone and lost.
When an ambiguous person suddenly loses contact, it can only explain the following three problems, don't be stupid anymore.
01: It's not real love
There is no switch in love, it is not that it comes and goes, but there is ambiguity.
If the other party leaves suddenly and ignores you, it means that he just wants to be less bored during the window period, engage in casual ambiguity with you, and pass the time.
Because, loving someone is impossible to control yourself not to contact the other person, all the emotions that can be suppressed with reason, unless there is a last resort, will never abandon you for no reason.
Those who can withdraw at any time are only interested in ambiguous objects, and like to indulge in this feeling of flickering away and near, wandering in the game of love.
Such a person, who is quite confident in his image and charm, will think that he can establish an ambiguous relationship with anyone, rather than the throbbing of his own feelings.
They regard their feelings as the ** that can handle people, completely ignoring the feelings of the other party, whether they will be hurt because of this, and only use this way to please themselves, absurdly delusional to use the other party's mud feet to prove their charm.
True love is by no means a rational game, but a sincere effort to give each other, unforgettable expectations, and can't help but miss.
And the two people who stopped at ambiguity were tacitly moved, but when one person withdrew, they extinguished the fire that should have been ignited.
02: I have found a new love
There is a kind of person who shows mercy everywhere, and people call him Aquaman.
Their characteristic is that they do not miss any ambiguous opportunity, and until they find a new love, they immediately give up the original ambiguous object.
People who hold this idea do not have love in their hearts, or rather, they do not think that love is the only one, but look for the desire for sensual stimulation in various encounters.
They never respect love, let alone cherish love, so they will indulge themselves and others to flirt with each other in ambiguous feelings.
Such people like the feeling of pulling each other, but they are reluctant to clarify the relationship, because it will prevent them from finding new love.
Once they lose interest in you and find their next partner, they will leave without looking back, cutting off contact with you and moving on to the next relationship.
You might think he's sad and disappointed because of uncertainty, and he does show that attitude, but in reality, you'll find that he quickly has a new partner.
This is not due to fate, but the other party has already secretly chosen the next one, and he will be so decisive when he leaves you.
What's even more infuriating is that such people are very good at shirking responsibility, either saying that they are hurt, or simply denying that they have been separated from you before.
Ambiguous, making people feel that they are looking forward to hope in disappointment, and accumulating disappointment in hope.
Those who have a heart feel uncertain, and those who have no heart use it as a means of amusement and play with other people's feelings.
Because we have given our feelings, we will let the other party stop at ambiguity, looking forward to it, and being lonely at the same time.
We are afraid of being rejected, which becomes a reason to be manipulated by others, and we end up being hurt.
Therefore, don't be ambiguous with anyone for too long, be brave, if he is also sincere, go further, if he just wants to be ambiguous, let's be chic, turn away and find someone who really cherishes us.
We must believe that the world is so big, there are always people who know how to appreciate and love us, and they will run to us with full sincerity.
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