Everything is planned perfectly and neatly. However, in many cases, the plan cannot keep up with the changes, or there is not enough ability to realize the plan, and in the end, it is just a void, empty and sad. All the good plans came to naught in an instant.
So, if that's the case, why waste that time and energy to plan or plan for the future?The future will be left to the one in the future to deal with and face. And what can be cherished and can be held in the palm of the hand is only today and the present.
Put away the heart that thinks that everything can be arranged properly, or desire, what you need more is to be able to live in the moment. Only by living in the present, enjoying the prosperity or simplicity in front of you, and not being coerced by the troubles and anxieties of advance payment, you will not have so many messy things in your heart.
The pursuit of perfection is nature and instinct. However, the truth is not so perfect, and there will always be all kinds of small flaws, shortcomings, or obvious shortcomings. It is normal to have drawbacks, because only then can a space be freed up as a buffer zone so that there will be no hard landing.
People who pursue perfection too much will only tire themselves, as if they have installed a motor on themselves, and keep rushing forward, their bodies are tense, and there is no way to relax at all, and they are not allowed to relax. Because they feel that as long as they stop and are unkempt, they can't accept themselves like that.
However, after all, man is mortal, he needs to stop, he needs to rest, he can be beautiful, and at the same time, he is allowed to be unkempt and plain. To love oneself is to be able to accept any aspect of oneself, whether it is good or bad. Because that's all part of itself, it's indispensable.
The plan is perfect, but the reality is cruel. I can't get what I want, almost all of them can't get my wish, it's like pouring a big basin of water on people from head to toe, and it feels like it's cold. But that's life!The perfect plan, and then paired with a real-life portrayal of nine twists and eighteen bends.
Life is not **, there is no way to develop in the direction that you are sure to win. It just shows the real path of life, how it should be and how it is.
So, sometimes, maybe something you haven't been able to get is not necessarily something bad, it may be that God is silently protecting you. If you can't see through it and insist on forcing it, the consequences you may have to bear will only be more unacceptable and the price you pay will be greater.
Some people don't need to make any plans because they don't fit in and don't need to, and planning will only make them lose their way and see reality clearly. They are better suited to learn to live in the moment, and then live peacefully with themselves and talk to themselves. They are their mentors and friends.
There's no plan, there's no expectation, there's nothing that can't hold on. Only plain and honest every today. I don't look forward to the future, I don't paint the scene of the future, but my body and mind are much more relaxed, and even the anxiety that has been inseparable has automatically dissipated, maybe it can't find a hotbed to live in such a person.