That day, I had a relationship-changing experience with my dad. The contradictions between us have always existed, and it is difficult to say exactly when it began, but a quarrel that day completely changed our relationship.
Here's what happened, that day I had an argument with my dad at home over a trivial matter. It was supposed to be an inconsequential matter, but because each other's emotions were sensitive, the originally calm atmosphere was quickly ignited.
That day, our argument reached a new level, and the conversation between us had become heated and hurtful.
There was an atmosphere of tension and anger throughout the house, and I think the relationship between the two of us really reached a limit.
At that time, I suddenly realized that such a quarrel was not once or twice, and the result was still like this every time, and each other felt uncomfortable.
I don't know what happened to the two of us or why we are like this, but I do know that I don't have the strength to go on like this.
I also told him that although there are many disagreements between us, after all, we are biological fathers and sons, and we should tolerate and understand each other, and not make a big deal at every turn because of some small things.
Since that argument, my relationship with my dad has slowly improved. There is a lot less unnecessary friction between us, and a lot more understanding and tolerance.
However, it seems that it is difficult to completely eliminate family conflicts. Not long ago, my dad and I had another argument over a trivial matter.
It reminded me of the big argument I had before, but I didn't want to let it happen again, and my dad obviously didn't mean that way.
The difference between this time and last time was that I didn't choose to take the initiative to bow my head because I didn't feel like I was wrong. I tried to communicate with my dad as calmly as possible, trying to explain my own thoughts, hoping that he would understand.
Under his tough attitude, I also slowly began to grow angry.
The argument between us soon escalated, the words became harsher, and the scene became awkward and tense.
I know that there are some things that cannot be forced, so it is better to avoid them for a while and deal with them when everyone calms down.
During this time outside, the more I thought about it, the more I felt that things were ridiculous, obviously it was a trivial matter, but it was a lot of trouble.
Although I feel that the other party is a little stubborn, I also think about whether I can consider the problem from his point of view.
I thought my relationship with my dad would improve, but as it turned out, it wasn't. Although we both tried our best to maintain this reconciliation for a period of time after that, the conflicts that had accumulated in our hearts were never truly resolved.
I tried to explain my idea to him, and I told him that my job was stable and that it wasn't just a means of livelihood for me, it was a hobby.
After every argument, he would call me ** and use various excuses to find out about my work, which was really unbearable.
I felt very tired and I couldn't understand why he was always unhappy with my choices. I'm his daughter, don't I deserve his support and encouragement?Every time, our relationship was once again strained to the extreme.
The house is always full of arguments and complaints, and sometimes I really don't know if it's me who is too stubborn or if he's ignorant.
I want to have a harmonious family, a warm environment, and a home where people feel safe.
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It's been a long time since I've sat down with my dad to talk. Yes, since our quarrel, I="9662-070-4641-9473-879840"> avoided exacerbating the conflict, but they were not as close as before.
Facing the light, he frowned slightly, looking a little hard. I walked over and asked him what he was reading, and he looked up at me and smiled and said it was an autobiography.
But I didn't say anything, just waited for the power to come back.
When the power was restored, we went back to our respective lives, although the atmosphere that day was a little different and it seemed that something was different because of it.
I was a little curious, so I secretly took it one day and looked at it. The book is about what happened to him when he was younger, including his first acquaintance with my mother and the changes we made in his career.
After reading it, I felt a little moved and guilty in my heart.
I began to doubt his attitude and the situation I was experiencing. Does he not want me to know about this book, or does he not trust me?
I hesitated to pick up the **, but finally put it down. I've got to sit down and think about it.
Whether it's family or friendship, perhaps the most important thing is mutual trust. And this is also a deeper barrier between us.
But there are so many things that I don't know before I take action. Two days later, I changed my plans.
When I received his **, his voice was a little tired, which made me feel a little distressed, of course I would go out to meet him.