When my aunt was young, she exuded abundant youthful vitality, as if the sun would look more gorgeous when it shone on her. Her beauty is indisputable, she is tall and tall, and her height of 1.75 meters makes her stand out from the crowd. She has a slender figure with beautiful curves. Her long, thick and attractive hair falls down to her waist, perfectly matching her large eyes, high nose bridge and lips, creating a distinctive face. In addition to her somewhat unique airfield, it highlights her unique temperament. Although her posture is a little ugly when she walks, overall,She's beautifulFlawless, worthy of being born a peerless beauty.
The difference in height between her and her uncle may be obvious, the uncle is only 1.72 meters tall, relatively speaking, his appearance is mediocre and has no outstanding features. But his steady job makes him seem mature and reliable. At the timeSocialIn the background, the uncle's decision to resign can be said to be a rather brave and wise choice. In terms of family background, the eldest aunt has a good family, and both parents areOffice workers, the family lives in a building. In contrast, the eldest uncle lived in a grass house built by the old man himself since he was a child, and it was not until he had some savings that he renovated his house into a brick house. It is undeniable that the eldest aunt is quite outstanding in appearance and family background, while the eldest uncle is relatively ordinary. This makes people wonder why the eldest aunt chose to marry the eldest uncle and spend the rest of her life with him
After her aunt parted ways with her ex-boyfriend, she fell into a deep confusion in her heart. During that time, everyone thought that she had run away from home, and her sudden disappearance was a blow to the uncle. He even had to call the police to find out her whereabouts. However, when the uncle went through her diary at his aunt's house, he found that she had not run away from home, but had eloped.
My aunt left home for a monthlifemade her realize that her sincerity with her ex-boyfriend was not suitable, and she decided to end the relationship. She chose to return to her uncle's side. When my aunt returned to my grandfather's house with her belongings, she made it clear that she would not return to her parents' house again, and that she would either stay at home or live on the streets. This made the uncle face a difficult decision, after all, everyone knew that she had eloped. But the uncle eventually decided to forgive her and chose to spend the rest of his life with her.
When the news of my aunt's pregnancy came, my uncle's family was ecstatic. Grandpa also arranged everything for the wedding banquet, and all the ceremonies were carried out step by step. They started anewlifeFrom then on, my aunt no longer kept a diary, but took care of her family wholeheartedly. Despite the quarrels between them, my aunt never left home again. The uncle's temper gradually became less than before, and he became more silent. lifeThe trivial matters, right and wrong, and housework have become part of the family, and at this time, right and wrong are no longer pursued, because every decision will hurt the family, and there will be reluctance and pain, which is the real family.
The family is a complex and delicate existence that involves many things, and it is often not a simple matter that is black and white. Not all disputes and conflicts in the family are black and white, and it is difficult for Qing officials to decide family affairs. In the family, emotions occupy an important place. The aunt chose to marry the uncle and spend her life with him, not just because the uncle had a stable job. There is mutual understanding, tolerance and trust between them, and they are willing to give for each other. Despite having a difficult time, they choose to forgive each other and start over. This shows the tolerance and perseverance in the family.
Through reminiscing and thinking, I gradually understood the prejudice and misunderstanding of my aunt in the past. She was not the female devil I thought she was from the beginning, but because of the contradictions in the relationship between her mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, it was difficult for me to understand and judge in my childhood. Now when I become a mother, I look at her from a different perspective and find that she also has her own confusion and confusion, as well as her own hardships and persistence. I gradually saw the kindness in her eyes and felt her concern for her family. Maybe the bad guy is not born, and after being misunderstood, she gradually changed herself and became kind and tolerant.
Looking back at my aunt's beauty and charisma, her Russian ancestry gave her a unique exotic charm, the kind of extreme figure, thick eyebrows, big eyes, and blond hair, which would make people fall in love no matter what era it is. In my hometown of Xi'an, I can see such a RussiaBeautyIt's very few. But my aunt was not inferior to Russia in stature and appearanceBeauty, elegant temperament and tall figure make her the focus of attention.
Although there is a gap between the eldest aunt and the eldest uncle in appearance and family background, their love and family warmth are not weakened because of this. They face each other together by understanding and tolerating each otherlifein the difficulties and challenges, building a sturdy and welcoming home. Their experiences tell us that a happy family is not based on appearance, height, or wealth, but on loving and supporting each other.
in our daily routinelifeWe also need to learn from the tolerance and tolerance of our aunts. We should let go of prejudices and misunderstandings about others, and truly understand and respect their ideas and choices. Only in this way can we build a more harmonious and happy familySocial