Cao Cao is an important figure in Chinese history, he not only has outstanding talents in politics and military, but also has a high emotional intelligence, some of his words and behaviors, for our interpersonal communication today, still has a great inspiration.
1. The affairs of the world are often made in difficult covenants and defeated in extravagance.
In this sentence, Cao Cao tells us that moderation and restraint are the shortcuts to success. In a life without friends, it may be easier for a person to fall into loneliness and negativity, but it is in this kind of predicament that we can discover our true worth and potential. By being strict and restraining from desire and glitz, we are better able to grasp the opportunities and achieve our goals.
2. If I regenerate, so will your strength.
The idea is that by thanking others for their help, we can take our friendship one step further, and when others help us, we should be filled with genuine gratitude to them, no matter how big or small. Expressing gratitude with the heart is not only a respect and affirmation of the other party, but also a return for friendship, through gratitude, we can convey our true and valued relationship with each other, so that the feelings between each other are stronger and intimate.
Third, the taxi is short, and it can be wasted.
The original meaning of this sentence is to say that when examining talents, they should not be discarded because they have shortcomings. In fact, the same is true of making friends, because no one is perfect, and everyone has their own strengths and weaknesses.
If you see a certain flaw in someone else in your interpersonal interactions, and you turn them away because of this, then you probably won't be able to make a friend. If a person wants to have a good relationship, he must be good at seeing the advantages of others, and at the same time, he must also tolerate the shortcomings of others, and then after becoming friends, he appreciates each other, helps each other, and makes each other improve and progress.
Everyone has his own contradictions and confusions, and it is inevitable that we will encounter setbacks and difficulties in interpersonal communication, if we can understand and use these words, then we can better face the challenges and dilemmas in life, get more opportunities and support in interpersonal relationships, and better realize our values and dreams.
Everyone has their own uniqueness, no friends does not mean that you have no value, as long as you dare to take the first step, to understand others with your heart, I believe that you will be able to live transparently, harvest true friendship and happiness, believe in yourself, you will be able to become a different person!