A lifetime of decades, not long, not short. Life is a one-way road that can only move forward, station after stop, up and down, I have seen many people and done many things.
After going through a certain stage and reaching a certain age, looking back on the past, there are always some things that are profound, regretful, regretful, and of course, happy. But people always look forward to a little sweeter life.
64-year-old Ajuan, who has known each other for 25 years, is the women's director of her first job after graduation. There are many factors that have made us friends in the New Year, in addition to mutual recognition of character, but also the same birthday, but 18 years apart.
Recently, I knew that I needed to clean when I moved, and I also knew that I was not good at hygiene, so I took the initiative to contact to help. After cleaning, the two of us sat down to drink tea and chat, and inadvertently learned about a regret in her life and lingered on her - selling her daughter's marriage house.
The family has an only daughter, who is pampered, and the son-in-law's family is average, and when he gets married, he is a loan house. Soon after her daughter got married, the old house demolished two sets of high-rises, one large and one small, and the location was also good. So I suggested to my daughter: sell the wedding house, live in her own high-rise house, it is convenient for the children to go to school in the future, a large set of live together, and a small set can be rented, which not only saves expenses, but also allows the small couple to pay off their debts.
The mother is strong, and the daughter is "obedient", but along the way, the family relationship is very delicate. One is that no matter how much you pay, you can't get the approval of the children, and the other is thinking of a way to get rid of the parent's arrangement, as the niece grows up, she realizes that no matter how close she is, she must also have a proper sense of distance, and she reprimands her rhythm for the mistake of judgment back then.
Yes, at that time, I would only solve the problem from the surface, but I would not think too much and think too far.
The child has become an adult and is married, which is a good time to formally cultivate independence, but the parents do not let go in time. Although the son-in-law doesn't say anything, no matter how he gets along, he always has an idea in his heart, after all, what he created has been interfered with.
Pity the hearts of parents all over the world, if you are not careful, good intentions will also lead to backlash. Now that she thinks about it, even she herself says that there are actually other ways to solve it.
I was so happy to hear that she had made up her mind to plan to live separately from her daughter's family. My daughter is older, my niece is growing up, and I am getting older, so it's good to leave space for each other and cherish each other.
Our parents and children are a parent-child fate in this world, coming and going, coming and going, we see, they look back, hand in hand is just such a journey, so we should cherish it even more.
Life is different, and each family is different, but there will be a scripture that is difficult to read. Life is dull, and the days are also cold and warm.
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