In daily life, parents take care of their children in every way, do everything they can, many children grow up to become very selfish and indifferent, take everything for granted, no gratitude, and even some will show harm to their parentsLet's introduce what causes these manifestations of children, and how parents should guide them to improve.
There is no love for no reason in the world, and there is no hate for no reason, which can form these, which should be caused by family education and the surrounding environment, there may be the following reasons:
1. Family factors.
Parents are the best teachers for their children, and home education influences children's behavior and emotions all the time. If there is too much doting on the child, arranging everything for the child, and the child will give everything when he is angry, it will make the child feel that it is taken for granted to find something, and the child can lack gratitude. If it is a lack of communication with the child, not enough time to spend with the child, and not enough attention and love, it will make the child show an indifferent attitude.
2. Environmental impact.
The environment in which children grow up is also a factor that cannot be ignored, contact with all kinds of people in school or society, as the saying goes, "close to Zhu is red, close to ink is black", what kind of friends are around, decide what kind of person they are, if the friends around them are some self-centered, lack of care and respect for others, this will affect the child. Negative effects on children's values and behaviors.
3. Personality psychology.
Some children are naturally more selfish and indifferent, lacking love and respect, which may be due to personality reasons, or psychological reasons such as low self-esteem and anxiety.
Children are selfish and indifferent, and they don't know how to educate their parents
1. Set an example.
Parents are the best teachers for their children, and they should set an example and teach their children to care for and respect others through their words and deedsFor example, let the child thank the teacher, and with the teacher's praise and encouragement, the child will see the importance of gratitude.
2. Develop compassion.
Teach your child to pay attention to his feelings, learn to empathize, and understand the feelings of others through storytelling, role-playing, and other behaviors.
3. Encourage sharing.
Let children participate in more family activities, communicate with friends, etc., to improve children's social skills and ability to care for others.
4. Give your child rewards and feedback.
When children show concern for others, or gratitude actions, timely rewards, praise, and encouragement can strengthen and exercise children's enthusiasm.
5. Cultivate children's communication skills.
Communicate more with children, understand their thoughts and needs, respect children's opinions, encourage them to express their feelings and ideas, increase parent-child relationship, and let children feel the warmth of family.
6. Participate in public welfare activities.
Participate in volunteer activities and enhance their sense of responsibility and care by doing some public welfare activities, so that they can better experience the meaning of helping others.
7. Pay attention to mental health.
Detect your child's psychological changes and mental health in a timely manner. Timely detection can be dealt with in a timely manner, communicate with children more, understand their confusion and needs, and give support and help.
8. Appropriate setbacks 100 help plan
It is understandable for parents to spoil their children, but they also need to have a degree, so that children can encounter some setbacks appropriately, so that children feel that life is not easy, and then solve problems with help, so that children understand the importance of cooperation and friends. Suffering some setbacks will strengthen your child's resilience and better meet challenges.