I found that now it is no longer sibling love that is more popular, on the contrary"Daddy's boyfriend"The position is becoming more and more precarious.
According to the incomplete statistics of my friends, in the past year, I have sent at least ten or more WeChat messages, all of which are about"Younger brother"Whether it's watching a touching romance drama or being attracted by the charm of young boys, my love for young boys completely shatters my long-standing beliefs.
Many girls like their older brothers from an early age, and when they grow up, they are infatuated with their uncles, which is the so-called"Daddy's boyfriend"Sometimes, when a group of people get together to chat, just ask, at least two or three girls say they said they said it when they were children"I won't look for boys younger than my own age"Something like that.
Of all the unrealistic love fantasies, older men are the most attractive, and we expect them to be gentle and considerate, to be in control of everything, and to take care of you like a child.
But over the years, everyone has begun to turn to sister and brother love, not only on the show, but also people around me have begun to fall in love, and I have participated in several such weddings.
Although we often say that sibling love is very fragrant, in fact, we all understand that with the growth of age and the changes of the times, the kind of love in which one party takes care of the other and is attached no longer has any concealment.
We can see the calculation behind maturity, the control and guidance of big and small things, and we are no longer satisfied with material pleasure and formalized treatment.
Especially now that girls are becoming more and more independent, they will spend every money and every love on being kind to themselves, and they don't need to rely on anyone's love to get happiness.
Just like Li Lin said in "Housework Honor Student", she can be a little woman or a big woman, in fact, her love with Jingchao began as a big woman.
When they first got together, Jing Chao, who was six years younger than her, couldn't make ends meet, and the lives of the two of them depended on Li Lin filming outside to make money, and even Jing Chao himself teased himself in front of the camera more than once"Eat soft rice"。
Now the roles of the husband and wife are reversed, Jingchao helps with housework as soon as he arrives home, tutors the children with homework, and even knows the page 16 of the text of Yong Ge that his daughter wants to learn.
His wife earns money, he is responsible for taking care of the whole family, and when he went out to work hard, he did not complain, he would still share the other half's efforts and tolerate all her big mistakes.
From beginning to end, there are no complaints, no temper and reason, the two people always talk and laugh and provide emotional support to each other.
In fact, the advantage of young boys is not because they are young, brave and naïve, but because of their unworldly background, which determines that they are naturally more accepting and able to face their weaknesses and the strengths of the other party.
In addition, they do not have stubborn judging standards, they will not use discipline to restrain each other's growth, and they will humbly listen to each other's suggestions and work together to move forward.
More and more sibling relationships are being seen by people, and they are actually broken"Male strong female weak mode"Therefore, it is not that girls are turning to younger brothers, but that we are gradually getting out of the limitations of being spoiled and re-examining the qualities that the ideal partner should have.
In fact, girls stay away"Daddy's boyfriend"Not because of your age, but because of unequal power relations, they treat you like a child, but they think you are easy to coax and deal with, and once you express your emotions in a relationship, he thinks you are vexatious.
When you want to do what you want, he is full of experience waiting to teach you a lesson, in all the mature and long-lasting love around you, there is no such thing as a child who becomes another person, it is essentially two loving people who are themselves without reservation.
I don't need to pretend to be coquettish, I don't need to show weakness, and I won't be easily confused by sweet words, in the words of my friends, in this world, I will choose the person who can make me better myself.
When marriage is no longer a necessity, love is no longer a mandatory thing, when we can buy ourselves beautiful things and eat delicious food, love is getting closer and closer to sincerity.
Sometimes, it can be seen from the popular trend of film and television that the boss is no longer attractive, the uncles have lost their aura, and even successful people cannot escape the greasy label.
This is the path of life that girls gradually open up with the change of understanding, they can be with a person for a lifetime, or they can find true love in a second marriage.
Why are young people reluctant to get married?
They can choose a young boy today, or another type tomorrow, whatever they want, in the final analysis, form and age are just tools in a relationship, the important thing is to find someone who respects and cares for each other, and holds hands together to spend a happy life.