A woman who does not live her own appearance, she must blindly accommodate the man in her relationship and wronged herself, even so, the man still feels that everything she does is what she should do, and it doesn't matter if she doesn't cherish it.
However, if a woman already knows how her path should go, how she should treat men, and when men admire and cherish her, she is unique, charming and worthy of possession in the eyes of men.
As Zhou Guoping once said: "A person who has not stepped on the road with his own feet will not find a road of his own." The same applies to relationships. Otherwise, if a woman always follows in the footsteps of a man, she will slowly lose her style and lose her value.
So, how should a woman live her true self?First of all, women must first identify what they really want to live, and then put it into action.
For example, if some women want to improve their knowledge and become more connotative, then she may need to make a charging plan, read, enroll in classes to learn Xi, etc.;Some women want to make their appearance more attractive, so she needs to control her weight, engage in some appropriate sports, and so on.
Secondly, stabilize your sense of worth and give yourself irreplaceable self-confidence. I don't know if you have found a phenomenon, that is, some women look beautiful and moving, including education, family background and other aspects, but she is prone to gains and losses in the face of love, afraid that men will empathize and abandon her, worried that they are not good enough, so they are willing to give up everything they have, selflessly pay to men, and even change themselves beyond recognition. Such a manifestation is a lack of self-confidence and a lack of security.
Therefore, it is very important to find the reasons behind this passive situation, and when it is improved at the source, you can really have the confidence to live your own appearance in front of men.