My uncle's family lives in a small village near mountains and rivers, and there is a small river in the west of the village. When I was young, my uncle was very handsome, tall and handsome.
At that time, my uncle was a barefoot doctor, carrying a medicine box on his back and walking the streets and alleys to see people. My aunt's maiden family is also from this village, and my aunt is handsome, tall and slender, with eyes that can speak, and a big black braid hanging down from her shoulders.
At that time, marriage was basically the words of the matchmaker at the behest of the parents, but the uncle and aunt were in love by themselves, and they only made it clear to the parents of both sides after they confirmed the relationship.
After my aunt got married, she gave birth to four children, two sons and two daughters, and my cousins and cousins grew up with their parents, although there was not much good food in the rural family, but they were all big and tall. Uncle and aunt are both quick-tempered, and they will blush and quarrel with thick necks at the slightest trivial matter.
One spring, I went to my uncle's house to play with my cousin and stayed. At the end of the meal, the uncle said, "Let's plant peas on the land in the south of the village in a few days."By the time of the Chinese New Year, the children will be able to eat pea buns." My aunt said, "What's so delicious about pea buns?"It's better to plant green corn, and then we will go to the market to sell green corn cobs."
Because of this, my uncle and aunt had the same opinion, and you quarreled with me every word. My cousin was so angry that she dragged me out, and when I walked to the gate, I heard my aunt shouting in a straight voice: "This year, you have to plant corn in this field, if you dare to plant peas, you can try!."My cousin was so angry that she said, "My father and my mother quarrel every day, and calluses grow in their ears, and they are annoyed!"It's better to get divorced."
I said cautiously, "Cousin, if my uncle and aunt get divorced, what will you do?"The cousin said, "If they do get divorced, we'll live by ourselves!"It's better than listening to them fight every day. "I don't want my uncle and aunt to divorce. While I was still worried about them, when my cousin and I came back, we saw that the yard was brightly lit, my uncle was around the cloth, and my aunt was giving him a haircut with a clipper.
They giggled, and the uncle said, "Don't you cut me the teapot head, how can I go out in that case?"In this way, the uncle and aunt kept arguing, but how they should live after the end. Perhaps, that's how it is between husband and wife.
The children of the uncle's family have a relatively high IQ and are very good at Xi. Both cousins were admitted to university, one worked for a large company in Shanghai, and the other worked in a public institution in our city. The two cousins were both admitted to the secondary school, and they both worked in the county. The eldest cousin is the school's logistics staff, and the second cousin works in the municipal administration. The four children are the pride of the eldest uncle and the eldest aunt, and when the eldest uncle walks in the village, he often has a straight waist and hands behind his back, looking contented. My aunt also smiled on her face, she grinded wheat and steamed steamed buns by herself, and sent a burden to this girl's family and a burden to that son's family.
Uncle and aunt have never been short of pocket money, a few years ago my uncle bought a rural pension insurance, and now he can receive more than 1,000 yuan a month, and he used to work as a barefoot doctor for many years, and he can also change every month. In addition, the children often take money from the family, especially the eldest cousin, who has an annual salary and earns a lot of money, he feels that he is far away from home and cannot be filial in front of his parents, and often gives money to his parents to express his heart. Therefore, the uncle and aunt have no shortage of money to spend, but they are still very frugal.
Uncle has always been in good health, he is thin and tall, and he usually doesn't even have a headache and brain fever. My aunt is chubby, she has high blood sugar and high blood pressure, she never pays attention to her diet, completely according to her own taste, sweet, salty, spicy, how to eat it.
My aunt's theory is that what people want to eat means what is lacking in their bodies!The children often advised their aunt to avoid it, but she did not listen at all. The uncle was so angry that he said, "If you are disobedient, you will regret it when the time comes!"”
Sure enough, on the second day of the first lunar month of the year before last, when my cousin and cousin both went back to their hometown and gathered together, after eating, everyone was drinking tea, and my aunt suddenly tilted her head and fell to the ground foaming at the mouth. Everyone hurriedly sent my aunt to the hospital, and after the doctor's examination, he said that he had a cerebral hemorrhage and needed to be hospitalized, and it was difficult to say what he would do in the future. My aunt was in the intensive care unit for more than 40 days before being transferred to a general ward.
The days of hospitalization were very long, and several children took turns on duty, but the eldest cousin in the company soon urged him to go back, he participated in a scientific research team in the company, a radish top a nest, and he couldn't leave. Before leaving, he said to his uncle: "Dad, the hospitalization fee is mine, I will pay as much as I spend, the company is urgent, I have to go back quickly!."”
A few days later, the second cousin said, "Dad, I've been on leave for a long time, and I've used up all my annual leave this year, so I have to go back to work." The uncle said: "Let's go, let's go, hurry back to work, work is important, your mother's state is not three days or five days to get better!."I'll just do it here. "The two sons are gone, the uncle is in the hospital permanently, and the two daughters come to deliver food after work.
However, as the days went by, the two daughters couldn't leave their homes, and they ran to the hospital after work, and they were very tired every day. When he saw that his aunt had improved, his uncle went through the discharge procedures, and his uncle had some medical knowledge, and he knew that this kind of disease would take a long time to have an effect.
My uncle bought all kinds of first-class instruments and helped my aunt train at home every day. My aunt walked crookedly, and her hands trembled when she ate. Life is semi-self-sufficient. Her mind is not very good, and she is sober for a while and confused for a while. When she was sober, she said, "Wife, you are so tired, you serve me every day to eat and drink, thanks to you!."When she was confused, her aunt would scold her uncle, thinking that her cooking was not delicious, that he had to let her exercise, and sometimes she was so angry that she tore her clothes. Uncle had never seen his aunt in general, and he knew that she was already a patient.
Taking care of my aunt every day, my uncle was very tired, he got up on time at five o'clock every morning, and after making breakfast, he helped his aunt get dressed and washed. After breakfast, my aunt yelled to go out, and my uncle had to help her go to a crowded place on the street to play. Since my aunt was sick, I couldn't stay at home, and I always wanted to go outside, but my uncle was bitter, and when the weather was warm, it was good to say, and in winter, the north wind was blowing, and he had to help my aunt out.
Since my cousin and aunt were discharged from the hospital, they have come back less, and they think that their uncle is at home, but they still give money and buy things. Besides, each of them has their own work and family, which is also inseparable. My uncle is 78 years old this year, and my aunt is 76 years old, both of whom are almost 80 years old. The uncle took care of the sick every day, and it has declined very quickly in recent years, he said: "I suffer like this every day, I can't eat and sleep well, and I may walk ahead of the old lady." ”
My cousin once suggested that my uncle and aunt go to a nursing home with better conditions, but they didn't go, and my uncle said that they were still Xi in their own home. When my aunt was sober, she said: "No matter how much money you have in your hand, your children will have their own children's blessings, so it's better to have an old wife!""Don't offend my wife, if you offend him, who cares if I eat and drink?"Who's going to take me out to play?”
Now, my aunt's condition is slowly improving, and her temper is much better than before, and she no longer yells at every turn like before.
The wife, the nest, and the old book are the three magic weapons of the elderly. Relatively speaking, the wife is more important than the nest and the old book. Who can ask you about the porridge and who can stand with you at dusk?The company of each other is better than eating delicacies from the mountains and seas every day. Especially when one party is sick, the children are busy with work and family, and it is impossible to stay in front of them every day, so you have to rely on your wife at this time!
Let's cherish our lovers!I wish the old people in the world to rely on and take care of their old age!