"Crossing the Guandong" is a TV series set in the late Qing Dynasty to the early years of the Qing Dynasty, which tells the story of a group of Shandong people who went through a lot of hardships to cross the Shanhaiguan Pass and go to the Northeast to make a living in order to survive and the prosperity of their families. Among them, Xiu'er is Zhu Chuanwu's wife, a kind and virtuous woman. However, Zhu Chuanwu didn't like her, and she didn't understand the reason until Xiu'er died.
In the original book, Xiu'er is a very good woman, she is kind, virtuous, hardworking, and very responsible for her family. She is also very good to Zhu Chuanwu, gave birth to several children for him, and has been silently supporting him. However, Zhu Chuanwu didn't like her and was even very cold to her. This made Xiu'er feel very confused and painful.
So, what is the real reason why Zhu Chuanwu doesn't like Xiu'er?In the original book, it is not explicitly explained. However, we can deduce some possible reasons from some details.
First of all, Zhu Chuanwu may not like Xiu'er's character.
Xiu'er is a very introverted and quiet woman who is not very good at expressing her emotions and thoughts. Zhu Chuanwu, on the other hand, is an extroverted and bold person who likes to drink and chat with his friends and enjoy a free life. Therefore, the difference in the personality of the two may lead to some contradictions and incompatibility.
Secondly, Zhu Chuanwu may not be very satisfied with Xiu'er's family background.
In the original book, Xiu'er's family is relatively poor and does not have much social status and wealth. Zhu Chuanwu, on the other hand, is a person with a certain social status and wealth, and he may pay more attention to the other party's family background and status. Therefore, Xiu'er's family background may not meet his expectations and requirements.
In the end, Zhu Chuanwu's love for Xiu'er may not be real love. In the original book, the marriage between Zhu Chuanwu and Xiu'er is more of a responsibility and obligation than true love. Zhu Chuanwu may not have really loved Xiu'er, but just chose her because she was a suitable person to marry. This kind of marriage that lacks the foundation of love often leads to some problems and conflicts.
There may be many real reasons why Zhu Chuanwu doesn't like Xiu'er, but these reasons are not clearly explained in the original book. However, we can deduce some possible reasons from some details. At the same time, we should also realize that marriage is not a simple love issue, but a complex issue involving family, society, culture and other aspects. In marriage, we need mutual understanding, respect, and support in order to build a happy family.