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Venus said:
When you reach a certain age, you must throw away four things: a meaningless drinking party, someone who doesn't love you, a relative who looks down on you, a friend who is hypocritical!”
Qian Zhongshu once said: "The prosperity outside the door is not my prosperity." ”
When we were young, we always liked to look outward, were keen on the bustle outside, participated in various parties and dinners, and made ourselves look busy and fulfilled.
We thought that we had accumulated a lot of contacts through this, but we didn't know that we wasted our youth on these meaningless drinking parties.
In the business world, only when two parties reach a cooperation or a transaction will there be the possibility of deep linking, which is called networking.
In real life, many people you know are just nodding friends, friends with wine and meat. These are not your real connections.
Alcohol is a good thing, so it makes sense to either drink it with someone you like or to celebrate it.
Don't reach out for gifts and love, take the initiative to give you favoritism, and reach out to ask for alms.
Therefore, whether a person loves you or not, you must be able to feel it.
The eyes of those who love you are full of pampering and distress, and the eyes of those who do not love you are full of desires and demands.
People who love you want to be needed, and people who don't love you are afraid of being disturbed by you.
It doesn't do you any good to keep someone who doesn't love you, you have to give up decisively, you should run to a better person and life.
It is a brutal fact that people like to look for faults in the poor and good in the rich.
When you don't mix well, the first to look down on you are relatives, the ones who think you are poor are also relatives, and those who are afraid that you are rich are still relatives.
In the movie "Forrest Gump", there is a very profound line:"I don't think mental maturity is becoming more and more tolerant and accepting anything.
On the contrary, I think it should be a gradual process of culling, knowing what is most important to you, knowing what is not important, and then being a simple person. ”
Those relatives who first think you are poor and afraid that you are rich should stay away from them and not be kidnapped by the so-called family relationship.
Society is so realistic, live hard, make good money, and live yourself!
Someone once told me that for many friends around me, it is just eating, drinking and chatting, and it is impossible to make friends.
Because every time I was sincere, I was disappointed, and I began to feel disappointed in my friends little by little, and finally found that in fact, I was pretty good alone, at least I didn't need to be so guarded.
Stay away from those false friends, and don't invite everyone into your life. Surround yourself with genuine people and concentrate on managing this intimacy.
As the writer Yu Hua said: "I no longer pretend to have many friends, but return to loneliness and start my life alone with the real me." ”
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