OneUnderstand your child's psychological changes
Understand the psychological characteristics of the rebellious period: Understand the psychological changes of children during the rebellious period, including independent consciousness, self-awareness, emotional management, etc.
Establish communication channels: Maintain good communication with your child, understand their thoughts and feelings, and respect their opinions and decisions.
IIBuild a relationship of trust
Show love: Express love and support for children through words and deeds, so that they can feel the warmth and safety of the family.
Respect your child's development: Respect your child's growth process and personality characteristics, and don't be too demanding or pressured.
Build trust: Build a trusting relationship with your child and let them know that you are a reliable partner who is willing to share their thoughts and feelings with you.
IIISet clear rules and limits
Be clear about the rules: Set clear rules and limits on important things, such as studying, making friends, having fun, etc.
Interpret the rules: Explain the reason and necessity of the rules, so that the child understands and accepts the rules.
Follow the rules: Take the lead in following the rules, setting an example and letting the child know the importance of the rules.
FourthEncourage your child to participate in decision-making
Give the right to choose: Involve children in decision-making and give them choice and autonomy.
Listen to your child: Listen carefully to your children's opinions and suggestions, so that they feel their value and importance.
Guided decision-making: Give your child guidance and advice at critical moments to help them make the right decisions.
FiveGive your child the freedom they need
Give space: Give your child the freedom and space to explore themselves and the world.
Support exploration: Encourage children to explore their own interests and potential, and give support and guidance.
Guided self-management: Guide children to learn self-management and self-restraint, so that they know that freedom and responsibility go hand in hand.
SixPay attention to your child's mental health
Observe your child's mood changes: Pay attention to children's emotional changes, identify and solve problems in time.
Provide psychological support: Give your child psychological support and encouragement to help them build self-confidence and a positive attitude.
Provide professional help: If your child is facing major psychological problems, such as anxiety and depression, seek professional help and support in a timely manner.
SevenEstablish a good family atmosphere and educational environment
Create a harmonious family atmosphere: Establish a harmonious family atmosphere, so that children can feel the warmth and support of the family.
Provide a good educational environment: Provide a good learning environment and educational resources to help children improve their learning effectiveness and ability.
Partnering with schools: Maintain close cooperation with the school to understand the child's learning and performance, and solve problems together.