After getting up early in the morning, after my mother called for a long time, the little guy who went to kindergarten said goodbye to the warm quilt very reluctantly. Then he came to the bathroom sleepily, but when the food was cold, there was still no one in sight, so the mother quickly turned into a detective to inspect, but found that people were playing in the water and having fun.
The mother, who thought she was excellent, held back her anger and gently reminded: "Hurry up, baby, I'm going to be late." The little one agreed very sincerely. Mom left the scene with relief, but after a long time, the figure still didn't appear, so Mom had to hold back her anger and remind again.
The child's procrastination is a silent rebellion against the parents
Children are grinding and procrastinating in doing things, no matter what the parents say, it is also possible that the child is silently resisting the parents. Parents are natural authority over their children, and children are often forced to obey their parents, and when they encounter dissatisfaction, they cannot express it. Children will want to use procrastination and procrastination to cope. For example, after school, the child originally wanted to play first and then write homework, but the parents had to let the child write homework first and then play, and the child could not resist the parents head-on, so they played while writing homework, so there was a phenomenon of friction and procrastination.
Lower motivation for everything
When a child's procrastination is severe, he will show a weakening of his enthusiasm for everything. Children with procrastination want to procrastinate in everything, and over time they don't want to try new things. Without any curiosity, you will feel that your life is boring, and maybe the more lively and cheerful children will become dull.
Parents should not be overly their children
Children who grow up under the reprimand of their parents are extremely insecure in their hearts, afraid of doing things, afraid of making mistakes, and over time, develop the bad Xi of procrastination and avoidance. Parents must let go appropriately and tolerate their mistakes within the scope of safety.
If the child offers to sweep the floor and has not done chores before, so he has not done the cleaning. Parents should first affirm the fruits of his labor and positive attitude, and then tell him what problems to pay proper attention to, and next time he can be better than his mother!
Parents stop giving harsh orders and help their children develop a correct sense of time
Children are beaten or harshly scolded when they do not meet the requirements of their parents, which will first lead to laziness in thinking and make the child's subconscious think, I will do this, this will not work, that will not work. Just don't do it, or put it off for a while.
It is easy to develop the bad Xi of avoiding procrastination, becoming more silent, and starting a tug-of-war with parents. Parents should reflect on this way of education and give their children some room for error. Parents should also realize that their children's procrastination is due to a lack of a correct sense of time!
The sooner parents guide their children to learn how to manage their time and adjust their own learning Xi methods, the stronger the child's Xi in learning.
I would like to share with you a set of books that teach children to learn time management, "Watch at School" series.
This set of 8 books is suitable for children in the lower grades, and corresponds to the key issues in children's learning Xi, such as how to manage their time and how to complete homework easily.
Who stole my time" guides children to arrange their time reasonably and not to do "little procrastination".
This book can help children easily understand what going to school is all about.
Writing homework is no longer difficult for me" tells children that writing homework is actually very simple.
I'm not afraid of exams" tells children that by doing so, they can get good grades.
A set of 8 volumes, ** is not expensive, but it can cultivate children's time management skills and become excellent children.
Through humorous and imaginative stories, the book adds appropriate fairy tale colors to real life, and tells the story to the hearts of children.
While reading the story, the book also proposes a lot of practical ways to teach children how to manage their time and how to complete their homework better...
This set of extracurricular reading materials imported from South Korea can help children quickly adapt to school life, cultivate good XiXi learning habits, and develop good time management Xi habits from an early age.
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