Last time I was in the mall, I met a colleague's husband with another woman, and the two behaved very intimately.
I took a picture of ** at the time, and I was going to tell my colleagues. Later an article was written on the Internet about it.
A friend left a message saying that it was better not to tell her colleague, maybe she knew it herself. Even if I don't know now, I'll find out sooner or later, and it's not up to me to tell her.
After listening to the advice of my friends, I deleted the ** and never talked about it with my colleagues.
Chatting with a colleague today, she herself may not be able to help it, and told us about her husband's cheating, it turns out that she has known about it for a long time.
The reason why I dare to say it now is because I figured it out and decided to divorce my husband, and I no longer care about other people's opinions, and I don't need to show affection in front of others.
My colleague said that the advantages of her husband that she usually talked to us were not exaggerations. Before this year, her husband's performance was indeed as good as she said, and he took very good care of their mother and daughter.
She never thought that her husband would cheat and fall in love with other women. After her husband had another woman outside, he still behaved very well at home, taking good care of her and his daughter.
I did what I had to do as usual, but I didn't spend as much time at home as I used to.
In the event of a divorce, her husband agreed to leave her a house and a car in the family, and half of the savings per person. Give her daughter 2,000 yuan per month for child support, and bear all the expenses of her daughter's schooling.
My colleague said that during this period of time, I was too uncomfortable to show it in front of outsiders. Every time I praise others about how good my husband is, I am smiling on my face, but my heart is hurting.
Thinking that such a good man will serve other women from now on, she is still a little unwilling. But when I think that men don't love themselves anymore, there's no point in chaining men to my side.
Thinking that the man is the daughter's father after all, she didn't get into too much trouble with her husband. After figuring it out, I agreed to divorce my husband.
The two have gone to the Civil Affairs Bureau to apply for divorce, and are now in the cooling-off period for divorce, and they can get the divorce certificate in a month.
After telling her true situation, she felt that her whole person was much more relaxed. Although I am about to get divorced, I am not so depressed when I say what is pressing on my heart.
A colleague said that her daughter is in her third year of high school and will take the college entrance examination next year. In the future, if you don't meet a particularly suitable person, you won't be ready to get married again.
The daughter will settle in ** in the future, and she will settle in the city where her daughter is located after she retires.
Living with someone whose mind is not on you is indeed a bit tiring.
Whether you live a happy life or not is not something you can say with your mouth. What's the point of praising your husband in front of outsiders, and others envy you?Only you know what your life is like.
After my colleague told her about it, I still didn't tell her about the last time I saw her husband with another woman. Now that she knows about it, why should I bother to talk about it?
Now divorce is very common, men and women no longer have feelings together, and it is better to be together than to be separated.