When we were children, the living conditions were relatively simple, and we lived in bungalows. Neighbourhoods are closely related to each other and often move around and interact with each other. However, as time went on, we grew up and our living conditions improved, and now we live in a neighborhood building, and our neighbors are becoming more and more estranged from each other, and the habit of visiting homes has gradually decreased.
In this fast-paced society, people work hard for a living, and often can only keep in touch with friends and relatives through ** or WeChat. If we want to get together and chat, we usually choose to go to a tavern or restaurant. However, some people don't like to visit or don't welcome people into their homes for a variety of reasons.
Those who don't like to hang out are often because they have a general relationship with others, and they are worried that getting too familiar with each other will cause trouble. Some people rarely invite others to their homes because they care about their privacy and don't want outsiders to comment on their homes. They may think that their home is not warm or tidy enough, or they may not want to expose their home to outsiders.
In addition, some people may be reluctant to serve guests because they are not good at cooking or they are too tired to cook. Cooking takes a lot of time and effort, and sometimes it can be a sore back. As a result, they prefer to choose to go out for a treat rather than inviting someone to their home for dinner.
In general, these different reasons make some people reluctant to visit or entertain guests frequently. However, for whatever reason, we should try to maintain friendly relations between neighbors, walk around each other, and enhance mutual understanding and friendship. It saves time and worry, and also saves face, which is the goal we pursue. **Likes quiet, hates noisy people, that's its safe haven. When others come to visit the house, we always welcome them warmly, chat with them, and enjoy the tranquility. However, when the family is dragged away, the children are playing, the adults are laughing, and the whole family becomes noisy;Two children quarrel over toys, and the emotions between adults will also be affected.
For me, my home is my family and my world, quiet and welcoming. When others come to visit the house, the house will become noisy, which is difficult for me to accept as I am used to being quiet. Over time, this habit turned into psychological resistance.
In real life, more and more people don't like others to visit their homes and don't like to go to other people's homes. It's not that they don't fit in, it's that they don't want to cause trouble for themselves and others. The really good feelings and good relationships between people have little to do with whether they visit or not. As long as our hearts are sincere, no matter how far away we are, we can be close. On the contrary, if it is hypocritical, it will only be boring to visit the door.