On college campuses, female dormitories appear to be more problematic than male dormitories. This phenomenon may be related to the personality of female students, but there are also some common headaches among female college students, one of which is princess disease.
Princess disease can be understood as a state of mind in which female students show a sense of superiority and special treatment in their university life. These girls may be accustomed to being cared for and cared for in their families and expect the same special treatment when they enter university.
This mentality is especially evident in dormitory life, where they expect the dormitory environment and facilities to meet their own requirements, and are too concerned and entangled in some trivial matters, which brings unnecessary inconvenience and distress to dormitory life.
Sometimes there may be only a small problem between classmates, but some female students are unreasonable and mess around, which leads to the problem becoming complicated, and in the end, only the counselor intervenes to help solve it.
In the case of Hangzhou Normal University, a female college student had a pointless argument over a cup of milk tea. She inadvertently drank the milk tea bought by her roommate's boyfriend, and her roommate insisted that she publicly apologize in her circle of friends. This kind of trivial matter could have been solved privately, but because of the existence of the princess's illness, it turned into a large dispute.
This situation makes people feel that female college students should be more rational and mature in dealing with problems. The job of a counselor, although sometimes required to deal with seemingly trivial matters, is essential to the student's personal growth and the stability of the overall learning environment.
Counselors are not only academic guides, but also supporters of students' psychology, career planning and interpersonal relationships. They will be required to deal with a variety of student issues, provide career guidance and have excellent communication and interpersonal skills.
While dealing with student issues, counselors also need to perform administrative and managerial responsibilities to ensure that the school's educational goals are effectively implemented. Therefore, we should resolve such issues more rationally, rather than allowing them to escalate into unnecessary disputes.
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