In the context of the popularity of modern social networks, WeChat has become an important tool for people's daily communication. However, in the interaction between men and women, the way some people address each other on WeChat may cause misunderstandings and even affect their relationship with each other.
This article will go through the following aspects, ** how men and women should avoid using inappropriate titles on WeChat to maintain each other's affection and respect.
In WeChat chats, some people will use overly intimate titles, such as "baby", "dear", etc. Although these salutations can express intimacy in some cases, they can be uncomfortable if the relationship has not yet reached a certain stage.
Especially when the two parties are just ordinary friends or new contact, too intimate titles are easy to give people the impression of frivolity, which is not conducive to the healthy development of the relationship.
For example, Xiao Wang and Xiao Li are college classmates, and the relationship between the two has always been good. However, Xiao Wang always calls Xiao Li "baby" on WeChat, which makes Xiao Li feel very uncomfortable. Xiao Li felt that such a title was too intimate and inconsistent with the actual relationship between the two.
Therefore, she reminded Xiao Wang many times to change the way she was called, but Xiao Wang didn't care. In the end, Xiao Li gradually alienated Xiao Wang because he couldn't stand this way of addressing.
Another way to avoid addressing on WeChat is with derogatory titles. Some people may give each other some ** nicknames or titles in a joking way, which is actually disrespectful to the other person. Even if the relationship is good, such a title is easy to hurt the feelings of the other party.
For example, Xiao Zhang and Xiao Liu are good friends, and the two often joke together. However, Xiao Zhang always called Xiao Liu "fat" on WeChat, which made Xiao Liu feel very hurt.
Xiao Liu felt that such a title was not only **, but also degraded his personality. Although Xiao Zhang was not malicious, Xiao Liu still had an estrangement with Xiao Zhang because he couldn't stand this way of being addressed.
In WeChat chats, some people may use overly casual titles, such as calling the other person by their first name or nickname. Although this is acceptable in some cases, it can cause resentment or misunderstanding if the relationship is not intimate or if the other person has a particular cultural or religious affiliation. Therefore, when choosing a way to address the person, you should take into account the feelings and cultural background of the other person.
For example, Xiao Zhao and Xiao Chen are colleagues, and the relationship between the two is average. However, Xiao Zhao always called Xiao Chen's name directly on WeChat, which made Xiao Chen feel very uncomfortable. Xiao Chen felt that such a title was too casual and lacked respect. Therefore, she hopes that Xiao Zhao will use a more formal way of addressing her to show respect for her.
In order to avoid using inappropriate salutations on WeChat, we can choose the following suitable salutations:
Use the person's first name: This is the most basic and safest way to address them. Whether it's a first-time contact or an already intimate relationship, using the other person's name can show respect and politeness. Use the other person's nickname: If the relationship is close and the other person has a specific nickname, then it is okay to use a nickname. But be careful not to use nicknames that are too intimate or **. 
3.Ask for the other person's opinion: If you're not sure what kind of salutation to use, you can ask the other person's opinion directly. This will ensure that the way you address is accepted by the other person and avoid unnecessary misunderstandings or conflicts.
In conclusion, the way men and women are addressed on WeChat is an issue that needs to be handled carefully. Being too intimate, demeaning or too casual can affect your relationship.
Therefore, when choosing a way to address each other, we should take into account the feelings and cultural background of the other person, and choose the appropriate way to address each other to maintain each other's feelings and respect. At the same time, we should also respect each other's opinions and feelings, and constantly adjust our words and actions to build a healthy, equal and respectful relationship.