In "The Big Fish That Was Released" shared last time, the father's self-discipline deeply touched his son and made him truly understand that some things are far more important than satisfying momentary desires, such as honesty.
Having a self-disciplined child is a dream for many families. However, children's self-discipline is not innate, and family education is very important for the cultivation of a self-disciplined child.
Parents and friends say well: parents are copies of their children, and every code of conduct of parents will be included in the eyes of their children, and they will be remembered in their hearts, and when they encounter similar deeds in their lives, there will be a benchmark in their hearts to measure, teach by example, and lead by example. We should discipline ourselves in order to discipline others. Correct guidance and establish correct three views!Try to give your baby a good start.
Today I would like to share with you: "What kind of family is more likely to raise self-disciplined children?".》
1.A family that is good at making rules.
Smart parents, most of whom know how to make rules with their children, follow them gently and firmly. After a period of time, the child will develop a Xi and internalize "other discipline" into "self-discipline", especially when the child is still young.
2.Give the child autonomy to the family.
The more parents intervene and persecute, the more passive and bad the child becomes, and even prone to rebellion. Most of the children who are able to be self-disciplined are those who have the right to make their own choices.
3.Families who often encourage children.
As a parent, don't be stingy with your appreciation and praise, and don't worry that your praise will get your child carried away. For children, the encouragement and affirmation of parents is the greatest motivation to cultivate self-confidence and develop self-discipline Xi.
4.A family where parents insist on self-discipline.
Parents know how to be self-disciplined, restrained, and have an orderly work and life, and children will understand it, learn Xi imitate, and take it as the highest standard.
Establish rules for children as soon as possible, and guide children to talk about rules and abide by the bottom line;Give children the right to make their own choices and lead them to open the door to their own interestsEncourage your child to "give it a try" and let him learn in practiceThrough their own demonstration, influence children's self-discipline and make infinite possibilities within an effective time, which is the real education.
The best love parents can have for their children is not to protect him for a lifetime, but to teach him self-discipline and responsibility. Because they will grow up one day, they will have to face the stumbles of life alone.