Let's first take a look at how outrageous these so-called "emotional mentors" can be!"Men are used to use, let him pay for you" "Let men spend more money for you, and the more money you spend, the better you are".
If you don't treat men as toolmakers, you will end up being a man's plaything.""It's time to ask for it, take advantage of the man's superiority on you, and madly guide him to pay for you"."The more you give, the more you love you, men are crushed to you, and they can't open their mouths to ask for money and gifts".
Be with others for nothing, who will cherish you when the time comes."
If you're keen on visiting the emotional area, you've heard a lot of such bizarre remarks. If you don't agree with a word, it's "you have to spend a man's money" If you don't agree with a word, it's "Men just use it" is such a remark that destroys the three views, and it seems that many people have really been empowered and regarded as a guideline. 
"Handed in homework, teacher" screenshot is a 200 yuan red envelope record. "Hahahaha, bought me a 14promax"."After chatting for half a month, I gave 6000 yesterday""Sisters!I'm out of breath!I finally received his money after more than half a year!This time it's real!""Men don't use it for love, master, I understand"
Such remarks abound in the comment area of any emotional blogger. 
Not long ago, an emotional big V "Ququ Big Woman" was blocked from three platforms in a row. For no other reason, many of her ** and live broadcasts are mostly teaching girls:How to dig gold in intimacy,How to find the gold owner,How to spend men's money. 
At the beginning of August 2023, a live broadcast room with a microphone ** circulated on the whole network: At that time, a woman consulted her, between her current boyfriend and the former owner, who should be married to marry?The current boyfriend who is three years older - the bride price of 4 million is not yet given. The fifteen-year-old former financier in the financial circle, 20 million Shanghai Daping, said that he would give it away, and he currently gave her 30,000 living expenses every month. After this incident was posted on the Internet, it immediately caused a sensation, and also sent the "financial man who threw 20 million" to the hot search, and netizens were "distressed" that he "couldn't exchange 20 million for a woman to turn back".
Another consultation is: Daddy assets more than a dozen small goals, within the siege, spent 300w on me in two years, and now I have the ball, I don't have a happy certificate, how can I get more rice?Look**We normal people can't understand it at all, because this is a black word that can only be understood by their circle: daddy = gold owner, big guy;Siege = marriage;Dribbling = Pregnancy;Happiness certificate = divorce certificate;Rice = money, assets.
There are many such stories: "The boss of a listed company worth more than one billion yuan gave me hundreds of thousands of living expenses per month;But I met true love who has no money, how can I get the big guy to continue to spend money for me?"How to talk to a big guy worth a small goal about the conditions of 'entering the siege'?"I earn 20w+ a year, how can I get a single man with an annual income of 10 million?”.How do I get a married man to spend more money for me?"There are many stories in her live broadcast room, which are so strange and real that they are shocking.
Don't love at every turn, don't let you love a man, let you use a man!"A man is a channel, emotion is a skill", "You can get tens of millions of real estate by being coquettish", "Don't talk to me about morality, I don't talk about this in my live broadcast room." Ququ often says this to fans.
Yes, you read that right. In her values, falling in love, getting married, and even having children are just tools to achieve "class leapfrogging". "Making money" from men is the ultimate goal beyond emotion.
We may all think that this kind of brainless and bizarre remarks must not have a small audience. However, what I want to tell you is: every time she broadcasts live, the number of ** is 100,000+!Most of the clients she sells emotional courses, 1v1 counseling and other services are 25-40 years old. And it is a first- and second-tier city, and the economic conditions are not bad for professional women, and there is even Bai Fumei with millions of assets.
Some bloggers calculated an account for her, and the big woman of Ququ earned more than 1400 million yuan.
Did you find any problems?Under the guise of these so-called "independent women" and "women's growth", their essence is "tricks to win high-quality men", "how to link big guys", "how to marry into a wealthy family", "how to use men".
They are nakedly interpreting the "power" of money, the objectification of men and women, and the cheap use of emotions. Even with such distorted values, there are still a large number of fans!After Ququ was banned, he jumped out to whitewash Ququ.
As you can see, even if Ququ really disappears completely, the so-called "emotional counseling" will not disappear with her. When you search for keywords such as "emotional counseling" and "female growth", many similar emotional blogger accounts will pop up. The three views are the same.
A female blogger said that "marriage is a pedal, and men are a ladder", and class leapfrogging must be achieved by "bragging" and "packaging". Another male blogger with millions of followers taught girls a lot of tips on how to get money from men by being coquettish.
Fish and dragons are mixed, black smoke and miasma, and I can't bear to look at it directly.
I have always believed that the reason why people are born as human beings, in addition to human nature and divinity in the soul, we can all live a chic and calm life, but we must not carry calculations and routines. Teacher Luo Xiang said: You will eventually understand that the future is more important than love, and you will also understand that love is more rare than the future, but in the end you will understand that the right person will stand in your future.
Finally, I have a sincere suggestion for you: instead of listening to these "emotional bloggers" teach you how to sell your dignity to achieve a counterattack in life, you can think about how to turn yourself into a truly valuable person, which is much better than meeting a rich fool.
No matter what the era,The ability to work independently when you grow up, the career that goes all out, and the enthusiasm to live hard are your eternal, best, and most practical "wealthy family". It's hard work, but it's dazzling!May we encourage each other.