Class reunions are a way for many people to reminisce about their school days. No matter how long it has been since they left school, many people like to take advantage of class reunions as an opportunity to connect with old classmates and reminisce about the good old days. However, in recent years, the nature of class reunions has gradually deteriorated, and some "special phenomena" have emerged. This article will describe these special phenomena, including four types of uninvited students and three types of students who do not move.
1. Students who are demanding
This type of student needs the help of his old classmates because he is in trouble, so even if he is not invited, he will show up without hesitation when he hears the news of the class reunion. For them, class reunions are an opportunity to ask for support and help.
Expansion: This type of student may be experiencing financial difficulties, finding a job, or other life problems, and they want to use the occasion of class reunions to seek help or advice from their old classmates. They believe in the camaraderie and help between old classmates and want the opportunity to be helped. For them, class reunions are not only about reminiscing about the past, but also about asking for help.
2. Students with financial difficulties
For those students who are experiencing financial difficulties in life, class reunions are a way to solve the problem of food and clothing. With class reunions, they can grab food, borrow money, or seek other financial help. Therefore, they will take the initiative to attend even if they are not invited.
Expanding: In today's increasingly socio-economic pressures, some students are experiencing difficulties in their lives. They may not be able to buy what they like, or even solve the problem of food and clothing. Therefore, on the occasion of class reunions, they hope to be able to borrow money or eat to solve their financial difficulties. Although they may feel embarrassed, they choose to come uninvited for the sake of life.
3. Students who like to show off
The living conditions of such students are relatively good, and there is not much financial trouble. However, they like to take pride in being rich and successful, so at class reunions, they actively participate in it to show their superiority.
Expansion: This type of student may have a relatively high social circle and a relatively good financial situation. They hope to gain the appreciation and envy of others by showing their wealth and success. And class reunions are a great opportunity for them to show off their lives. They want to show others their success and shining moments by participating in the party.
4. Students who have free time
For some students who don't currently have a formal job or work relatively few hours, attending class reunions has become a way to find entertainment. They can take advantage of class reunions to eat and drink and pass the time of boredom.
Expanding: These students may not have found a job that suits them yet, or they may work relatively few hours. They feel bored and empty and want to find a way to have fun to pass the time. Therefore, on the occasion of class reunions, they can eat and drink, and relive the memories of their school days again and again.
1. Rich and busy students
Students who are already living in very good conditions and are very busy at work often choose to give up attending class reunions. They are more focused on work and career development, and feel that class reunions are not important to them.
Expansion: Such students may have achieved some success in their careers and have stable and affluent living conditions. Although they still miss their school days, they are more focused on work and career development, and think that class reunions are not important to them. They feel that time is precious and do not want to waste it on reunions with old classmates.
2. Students with high self-esteem
This type of student used to be a celebrity in school, but after graduation, he or she may not be able to develop as he would like and become mediocre. Therefore, they are reluctant to appear at class reunions, fearing that their personas will be broken.
Expanding: When they were students, such students could be the most prominent figures on campus and attract attention. However, as they develop after graduation, they do not get what they want, and their career or life is not what they hoped. As a result, they are sensitive to their own image and do not want to be seen at class reunions. They are afraid that their past aura will be broken, and they are unwilling to bear the gaze and evaluation of others.
3. Students with a low sense of presence
This type of student is relatively reticent and has a low sense of presence when they are students. Class reunions rarely think of inviting them, and even if they do, they don't go to it.
Expansion: This type of student may not be very good at expressing himself when he is a student, and his sense of presence is relatively low. Class reunions rarely think of inviting them, and they are not suitable for such students. Even when someone asks them, they often choose not to go. For them, class reunions are not an opportunity to express themselves, nor are they very attractive.
As a way to reminisce about the past and connect with feelings, class reunions are supposed to maintain their pure and beautiful nature. However, due to some special reasons, class reunions have gradually deteriorated and become a place for comparison and exchange of interests. Students should understand that class reunions are not a place for comparison and profit, and the real thing is to keep the original intention and do their best.
At class reunions, although everyone wants to show others a better life, students should cherish the opportunities of their student days and strive to improve their academic performance and comprehensive ability. Especially during the university years, students should strive to improve their academic qualifications and professional skills to prepare for the future workplace in order to have a better future.
When choosing their own future path, students should consider their interests, abilities and development prospects, set appropriate goals and plan for future development. Whether it is choosing to take the postgraduate examination or the public entrance examination, it should be the direction that students actively choose, rather than being driven by external pressure and influence.
The deterioration of class reunions is not due to the problems of the reunion itself, but because of the changes in the students who participated in the reunion. Students should be aware of this and keep reminding themselves that class reunions are not a place to compare themselves with each other, and that it is important to be yourself. Only by really doing a good job in your studies and life planning, and moving towards your goals in a down-to-earth manner, can you have a better future.
Therefore, my opinion on the matter of class reunions is that students should not lose their enthusiasm for class reunions because of some special phenomena. The reunion itself is an opportunity to reminisce about the past, connect with each other, and is a way for students to get together. It is important for students to be innocent and sincere, maintain good memories of their student days, cherish this opportunity, reminisce about the past with their old classmates, share admiration for the future, and at the same time remember their original intentions and strive to do a good job in their own learning and development. Only in this way can the class reunion return to its purity and beauty.