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1. I feel as if I have no ability to deal with the world at all, and what should I do if I have the ability to get along with my elders?
I am a student.
I used to think that I was a relatively comfortable person in terms of social aspects, but with the arrival of 18 years old, I suddenly felt that I just had the ability to "make friends with children", and recently I encountered a problem that may seem very small and boring to adults, but I myself don't know what to do, and I don't know who to ask around, and it is a little difficult to talk to my family, so I want to ask you for your opinion.
I'm a lover of literature, but I've now learned that I'm rubbish in this area, in fact, I don't have much talent and little knowledge, so I haven't written any articles, I just keep reading as many books as I can. In the past, when I was young in junior high school, I was very ignorant, more arrogant, my Chinese grades were good, and my composition was always the highest score, and the teachers in the school always praised me, basically never criticized me, I was really floating, and I wrote a little bit of "poetry" that was not like it, and I didn't understand it, and I wanted to find someone to guide me, my family was a university teacher, and my mother found someone who knew better, and a colleague from the literature department helped me look at it (my mother was in the engineering department, and she used to have contacts). The first time I asked him, the teacher helped me change it. I was quite complacent, and a few times later, I asked my mother to help me ask him, and he told me that he was "completely unqualified". I was criticized twice, and that was actually the first time I was criticized in terms of language, and I was so ashamed that I never wrote my fake "poems" again, but just read books.
After a period of time, a few years, I recently participated in a relatively large essay competition, and I subconsciously entrusted my mother to help me ask that uncle. Only then did I realize that the teacher seemed to be very powerful, very literate, and very knowledgeable, and my mother said that he had a very good personality and character, and was a person who was very outstanding in both moral and ability.
In this competition, I wrote a "classical Chinese" in order to "go off the rails with the sword". At the beginning, I sent a message to the teacher, and he promised to say, "I'll change the whole article." Changed a few sentences to tell me (these are all chat logs between my mother and him), or don't write Chinese, I have mentioned this issue before, and many of them are assumptions and fabrications. I listened to him, and although there was not much time before the deadline, I quickly rewrote it, and his evaluation was not very good—or rather, it was actually a general criticism of my indiscriminate arguments, moaning and shouting slogans, and suddenly starting to sing praises, and changed some of them, and gave me a lot of criticism. I immediately rewrote two more essays, one on the same topic, and the other on the test-taking discussion that I was best at.
I asked him a lot in between, and every time I asked him, he would reply to me and give me a lot of advice.
At this time, I felt that it was a bit troublesome to let my mother be a microphone, so I asked if I could add him to WeChat and ask again, and he added me. Maybe I'm too cheeky to do anything. Anyway, I immediately changed a version to show him that day, and gave him another article written for the sake of safety.
This time, he marked out the half-textual and half-white of my entire article, inappropriate words, and descriptions, dropped my book bag, and drew a delete symbol for me with forced quotations and so on. I changed the first paragraph, sent me an essay of his for me to read, and then typed me **.
I was very familiar with calling "Hello Uncle" in **, like many times before, but he smiled and said, "Oh, call Teacher!."I felt unworthy, but I was honored to call him teacher, it was about 10 o'clock in the evening, about 11 o'clock in the evening, and the teacher really carefully first told me "what a good article looks like", and then told me that "the article should be practiced, in fact, it is not gradual, but like hitting a brick wall, it is persistently "bumping" In the process, one day it suddenly crashed open, and the rhetoric I am piling up now is also a necessary process, but he is teaching me now so that I can get through the process quickly. ”
Then he picked out a paragraph from my article, picked it word by word, changed it for me, read it to me (just changing a few words and it was really completely different), and asked me to change it myself, and finally said okay, you can change the rest.
I was really moved, I didn't do anything, but he taught me so much, and I didn't bring gifts to the door like Dongyang Masheng, I was so bad, so stupid, so stupid, so stupid, but he taught me so much without saying a word. I clumsily edited a lot of mature words in the chat box according to what I had learned in my language class, and my mom laughed at me and said that I looked too fake and slick, but I didn't know what to say. Finally, I would like to say that I would like to visit you when I have free time, thank you.
That day, I pressed the delivery time to change it to more than one o'clock in the evening, and sent it to the teacher again, I thought that he probably didn't have time to read it, but he replied to my message at one o'clock in the evening, saying that it was much better, and it was okay.
At this time, I was tired and sleepy, my brain was straight, and I didn't care at all that this article would not win an award in the future.
In hindsight, I really admired and thanked him, and I wanted to continue to associate with him, but I always felt that I couldn't find him every time I had a problem and didn't talk to him (in reality, there were few opportunities to meet, and he was also very busy with many classes), I want to know now, he asked me to call the teacher because my mother is his colleague, so be polite to me, I will find him next time, can I still call the teacher directly?Will I find him through my mom next time, or can I message him myself?I'm just a very young student, I don't want to look slick, flattering and pretending, but I want to continue to ask him for advice, but I'm afraid he'll be annoyed if I look for him again, but if it's just a problem, such as a competition, and so on, it seems like I'm treating people as tools, which is not good.
Anyway, I don't know what to say, thinking about how wrong it is, I haven't sent him a message since that day, I don't think it's good, and I don't know what to do at all, I said I wanted to visit someone's house, and there was no reason, and I didn't know what to say when I saw him, in case it was abrupt, it was better not to go. In short, I found that I really don't have any ability to communicate with my elders at all, I just want my mother to speak for me, to interact with others for me, but I'm an adult now, this doesn't seem to work, I used to sneer at the world, I don't think it's necessary, and now I don't want to make myself look stupid in front of my more admired seniors and find out that I'm really stupid and stupid, and I can't do anything, help, what should I do!!
There is no need for a student to think about how to behave in the world at this time, you do a good job in your Xi and make achievements in your Xi, which is more effective than what you learn about all kinds of so-called human feelings.
Xi well, your elders just think that this child is a little ignorant, and it is still good for you.
In addition, it is difficult for me to understand that you learn all kinds of Xi content articles in the textbook and so on, and there are many articles in it that deal with the world, you should not have understood it, and when you understand the reading, you already know how to behave in the world, all kinds of classic articles, all kinds of classical Chinese are these things.
So, there is no need to learn this, by saying that you are not interested in these things before, it seems that your problem is not not understood at all, it is that you don't want to do it, then it's simple, you just go and do a little bit of undesirable coping, as long as you are willing to let go of your heart, you can do it.
Is it possible to change to the Internet at the age of 20 or 30?
Depending on what position or project you want to do in the Internet, if it is technical, you don't have the foundation and Xi learning ability, it will be relatively difficult, if you change careers to other positions, what kind of operation positions, etc., I think it's okay.
3. If you want to sell good products, you can cover as much as possible with the eyes of consumers
Advertising films, promotional videos, online shorts, soft texts, Weibo, Q&A, notes, audio, blogs, etc., outdoor artillery, high-speed rail screens, buses, bus stops, rural walls, paper newspapers, magazines, internal magazines, etc., these are the scenes that consumers often come into contact with**.
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