On the road of life, we often meet all kinds of people, some of them are talented, some are skilled, and some are extremely intelligent.
The success of these people is not achieved overnight, and there is often an unknown dedication and grinding behind them. Successful flowers, people only envy her current brightness!However, at the beginning, her buds were soaked in the tears of struggle and sprinkled with the blood of sacrifice.
Specifically, the three major elements of their success are to read the right book, follow the right person, and mix the right circle.
1. Knowledge structure: read the right book
Knowledge is the cornerstone of life's development. The reason why masters can excel in a certain field is often because they have a solid knowledge base and profound theoretical literacy. So, how do you build a good knowledge structure?
First of all, reading widely is the key to building a knowledge structure. Reading not only broadens our horizons and increases our knowledge, but also helps us to understand the world better.
A person's reading history is the history of a person's spiritual growth. It is necessary to use the knowledge of different disciplines, such as philosophy, economics, history, culture, politics, etc., to build their own unique thinking system.
In the process of reading, we should pay attention to choosing excellent books, read more classics, and those books that have been washed over the years are the precipitation of knowledge and wisdom.
Secondly, being good at summarizing and thinking is a necessary ability to build a knowledge structure. In the process of reading, we should learn to think and summarize, and transform what we have learned into our own cognition and understanding.
Integrate knowledge and action, learn to think critically, not blindly accept the views of others, but make correct judgments after your own thinking and analysis.
Second, the position experience: follow the right person
What kind of person you are with, what kind of life you will have. One of the great blessings of life is: to walk with the wise and to be in the company of the masters.
Peter Lynch, a well-known manager on Wall Street, had a tragic experience in his childhood. At the age of 10, his father died of illness, and Peter Lynch worked as a golf boy to make ends meet. But it was the chance of the golf course that put him on the road to investment. During his time as a caddie on the golf course, he came into contact with many influential people, and his interest was aroused when wealthy people talked about ** and investment experience. It was in the mouth of the players at the golf club that he received an early education in the market.
Later, when Peter Lynch was in his fourth year at Boston College, he used the personal relationship he had established with the owner of Fidelity ** when he was a caddie to successfully enter his company as a Xi, and since then he has begun his legendary investment career.
If it weren't for his experience as a caddie in golf, and without the inspiration of celebrities and magnates for his early investment interests, he might not have had the Peter Lynch who dominated Wall Street.
Keeping up with the right people is the key to success. A good superior leader can not only help us better complete our work tasks, but also impart valuable work experience and skills. In the process of following the leader, we should learn to take the initiative to communicate and ask for advice, and establish a good relationship with the leader, so as to get more guidance and help in our career.
3. Take people as teachers: mix in circles
In what kind of circle, what kind of cognition, what kind of cognition, what kind of future!
On the road of life, we must learn to build good relationships with others, grow and Xi together with like-minded friends. So, how can you mix the circles?
We need to be clear about our goals and directions. Only by knowing what you want can you better choose the circle that suits you. At the same time, we should also pay attention to the improvement of our own quality, so that we can be competitive enough to gain the recognition and respect of others.
Second, we need to learn to build good relationships with others. In interpersonal communication, we need to be sincere, helpful, good at communication and Xi learn from the strengths and experiences of others. At the same time, we must also learn to identify which friends can be trusted and Xi from us, and establish long-term and stable friendship relationships with them.
Finally, be actively involved in various social activities and organizations. By participating in various activities and organizations, we can make more friends and peers, expand our social circle, and gain more opportunities and resources.
The path to growth as a master is not an overnight process. On the road to becoming a master, we must continue to learn and Xi and grow, so that we can go steadily and far on the road of life.